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I know you’re time-challenged. I know you think almost all news is biased. Having said that, I highly recommend this Bulwark podcast wherein Anne Applebaum goes deep into what is going on in the Hungary election as well as Ukraine and the U.S. This is the most cogent, most thorough analysis of what is going on over there that I’ve encountered. Applebaum is an expert in this area. She is not histrionic, she just lays it down straight. If you want a perspective on world affairs that is easy to understand but will leave you with your jaw dropped, this is the place.

Why does everybody think they’re so special, why are they convinced the rules don’t apply to them?

So I decided to run down the hill to get lunch and a few other items at Whole Foods. Now when Whole Foods came to L.A., they took over this chain Westward Ho, whose stores were small and its parking lots compact in accordance with the market’s size.

Now at this point, Whole Foods has been opening up superstores, with wide aisles, plenty of inventory and plenty of parking.

But down the hill from me…

Frustrated me that there were five men in the deli department and not one would help me. I have sympathy, I wouldn’t want to do this job either, but they’re standing around b.s.’ing and what do they say, time is money? We’re all overscheduled and we all want it quick. If you’re selling commodities, the process should be smooth and easy. If you’re selling bespoke items, if you’re selling service, it’s a whole other ballgame. Then you must have enough employees so when I walk in the store I’m helped immediately, although I’m willing to have an experience, to spend some time, to bond with the salesperson, learn about the product. But not at Whole Foods.

But what really bugged me today at Whole Foods, what I contemplate every time I go to this one former Westward Ho close to my abode, is the difficulty, at some times the impossibility, of getting a parking space.

Now there were fewer than two hands worth of shoppers in the store. I covered the aisles. But in the parking lot? There were over fifty cars, I had trouble getting a space.

So what was up with the extra cars?

Well, this Whole Foods is right by a freeway interchange, so people leave their cars in the parking lot and they’re picked up, sometimes they leave their automobiles all day long. After all, it’s just one car, what difference does it make, everybody does it, right?

Now when I was growing up, reading about crimes by politicians, I thought enough sunlight, enough press, would radically reduce these illegal acts. But no, every generation comes along with its own strategies to bend the rules, rip the public off. I mean you’re an elected official and doing it in plain sight?

Now one of the other things that sticks in my craw…

I don’t know if you’re following this…

Up to 40% of Stanford students have registered disabilities, they get special accommodations, like extra time on tests. Now it’s one thing if you’re going to a community college, but STANFORD? And at the Ivys and other elite institutions the rate is 20% or more. The best and the brightest get to have a thumb on the scale?

As Bob Dylan sang:

“Now each of us has his own special gift

And you know this was meant to be true

And if you don’t underestimate me

I won’t underestimate you.”

Everybody’s good at something. Maybe it’s not school. Or maybe you should attend a school where the weather matches your clothes…

But the dirty little secret is most of these kids are gaming the system. They’ve got parents who can pay for a diagnosis, whereas the rank and file don’t have this privilege so they’re squeezed out.

And now it’s the California Bar Exam!

Forget that they recently made it shorter and easier, because very few could pass, but now 14% of test takers have registered disabilities, they can be as simple as anxiety.

I’VE GOT ANXIETY! And believe me, it was sky high when I took the bar exam. A friend saw someone pull over and puke on the way to the test. The bar exam is supposed to be a level playing field, the same rules apply to all. Only now they don’t. Furthermore, if this person needs special accommodation, do I really want them representing me as my lawyer? I mean if they need extra time on the bar exam…

Of course there are those who are truly disabled, and they need cutouts in sidewalks and other benefits, but that’s not what we’re talking about here, most of these people are gaming the system.

Then again, it comes from the top down. Trump is against mail-in voting, yet he just voted by mail. What did he say? That he is president, the rules are different for him.

Don’t we know it, the rules are completely different for the rich, who do their best to not even rub elbows with the hoi polloi. You get an expensive lawyer who knows the prosecutor and the judge and your kid gets off with probation whereas those less fortunate go to jail.

And concert tickets… One way to keep prices low would be to tie the ticket to the purchaser. But the public doesn’t want this. Because they want to be able to scalp their extra tickets. Wouldn’t be fair to deprive them of this upside, and they’re not like the big scalpers, right?

Well, the little things add up.

Want to really protest? Litter. Or maybe smoke. When I see someone throw junk out the window of their car… I mean who hasn’t gotten the message, they know what they’re doing, they just think it’s one little piece of garbage and it doesn’t make a difference, but it does, it all adds up!

Even NIMBYISM. Don’t want those people living in my neighborhood… So where they should live?

Or this belief that you should not pay taxes… You drive on the roads, don’t you? You like having a police force and the fire department just a phone call away. Who is supposed to pay for this?

SOMEONE ELSE!

Got to be the takers.

Everybody rationalizes their breaking of the rules, it’s not their fault, but someone else’s, they’re just keeping up with the Joneses, everybody does it.

And everybody sometimes does do it. Sometimes the speed limit is set too low, and in California they raise it. Not every law is sound. But a ton of them are.

People brag about cutting corners, getting ahead. And then you’ve got the corporations using their leverage… Microsoft made manufacturers pay for Windows on their computers even if they installed Linux.

I don’t think life will ever be fair. But it could be more fair than it is today. But that would require us all to agree we live in a society, that we’re in it together. And ultimately we do. You can live behind a wall with a security guard and that doesn’t mean you’re totally immune to crime.

Everywhere in America people don’t want to wait their turn. I get it, you’re time-challenged, but sometimes to get what you want you have to. But there’s very little you need to have.

And who can you complain to? Who is going to take up the cause?

And even if someone did, they’d be seen as a goody-goody, impinging on the rights of others. After all, they had to leave their car in the Whole Foods parking lot because otherwise they’d have to pay for parking at their job. You don’t want them to have to do that, do you?

Then again, their job might give them just enough hours not to pay benefits, never mind a wage that they can live on.

The older I get I know there is no solution.

But that does not mean it doesn’t bother me.

They’re doing a good job of ruining one of my favorite shows.

We’re living in an overwhelming, confusing time. What with the war, gas prices, other political and economic issues, it’s hard to stay calm, to keep your head on straight. But this is not what the people on the autism spectrum on this show are concerned with. They’re just trying to navigate life.

And ultimately, it all comes down to life. Love and happiness. They’re the root of being human. But too often, in the everyday struggle, we lose sight of this. And “Love on the Spectrum” focuses us.

The people on this show… They’re navigating human interactions, relationships, they’re trying to find love. They’re not covering up, manipulating, it’s all out front, and it’s fascinating and heartwarming.

I thought I could watch this show forever, I love it.

But as it got closer to the end…

This is the problem with reality television, it becomes too self-referential, too inside, it disconnects from truth, it becomes entertainment as opposed to reality.

Bottom line…these people are now stars.

What have we learned about child stars? They end up on drugs robbing 7-11’s. Not all of them, but they’ve been plucked from the pack and had the light focused upon them, oftentimes for not much of a reason other than being lucky, sometimes being cute, and then it ends. Then what? Try coping with that when you’re on the autism spectrum. When the bottom falls out.

But even worse than the attention these people get on the show, the greedy corporations are now using them as influencers, hawking products. Their promotional clips are all over TiklTok, Instagram Reels. We use this, we love this, buy this… Yeah, right. Forget that the influencers burn out, do you think these people will not? Do you think these corporations will be looking for them to promote products five years from now? Five months even? When they crash, then what?

But there’s a facsimile of truth, until by the end of the show, the prior participants get together to celebrate the engagement. Like they’re all part of a special club. Do you get together with the people you were on TV with? No, because you weren’t even on TV. And when you get together with your old school/camp buddies, no one is filming it for everyone to see.

However, before we get to that point…

James and Shelley… Now she sought him out, but how can she cope with him? She can’t get a word in edgewise! I’d argue the true stars of the show are James’s parents. Who are nice, regular, but with a sense of humor. They can chide James, poke him, soothe him… Their son who is 37 and still living at home. As for buying a house, where did the money come from? Certainly not James’s work… There’s so much revealed in this series, and so much held back.

Connor is a savant. He knows so much about so many things. Makes me feel inadequate at times. But sometimes he seems so serious, nearly frozen, that you believe he is acting, when this is just who he is. Give him credit for leaving the show in the future, then again he was signed by UTA and is trying to become an actor. If you read online, he’s mostly looking for voiceover work, and I can see that, but…what if it doesn’t work out. It’s hard enough to be a has-been if you’re not on the spectrum.

Emma? She’s bubbly and alive. It’s kind of stunning no man has ever approached her for a date. Then again, you’ve got to have sympathy for the parents. We only see their children for moments, they’re exposed to them all the time, and that can be very difficult, with the repetition and meltdowns…

Logan… Hailey works, has he, can he? Ditto on Dylan…nice guy, mother far from rich, they’re living in a one bedroom apartment. He stays at home all day watching TV. He smiles, but it’s so sad, and sometimes this sadness slips through in this show, which is why it’s so compelling. But now Dylan is on social media too.

The awkwardness of the interactions on the dates… They’re not that far removed from the ones average people experience, which is one of the reasons the show is so relatable. What do you say? How do you engender conversation while you’re evaluating all the time whether you like them and whether they like you.

And there are too many holes. The show was shot a year ago, what has happened since. Abby and David, are they still together? They haven’t been posting about each other on social media, scuttlebutt is it’s over. But the real reason we’re interested is they were on the verge of getting married… Are their parents fearful of this or is the relationship just over?

As far as getting married…

Then what? How are the bills paid? What about children?

And little things slip here and there, Madison went to and graduated from college, yet she still has a helper. And then she has that meltdown when someone calls her “Maddie” as opposed to Madison. A person she labels a “fan.”

Is that what we want for these people? Fame? Fans? People who think they know them but really don’t? God, musicians take drugs to cope, how about these people?

And then you’ve got the parents cashing in with podcasts and…

Do you remember that Afghan girl on the cover of “National Geographic”? You know, the one with the green eyes? If you’ve seen the photograph, you’ll never forget it. But she didn’t know she was on the cover, she didn’t know she was famous. Ultimately “National Geographic” reconnected with her in 2002 and showed her the picture, but they said this was one and done, because they didn’t want to screw up her life, like “Love on the Spectrum” has done with its “cast” members.

Watching “Love on the Spectrum” makes you want to go deeper, work with people on the spectrum. But the bottom line is unless you’re a psychiatrist, there’s no money in it. So the best and the brightest don’t help those who need aid the most.

But this is life. Or at least it was, until the show gained traction and the people in it gained notoriety and not only did the producers start to trade on it,  the participants did too.

Bottom line, they’re screwed up for life.

Not that things were necessarily so great for them before, but at least they were rooted in life and its realities, its frustrations, its challenges. Now they’re like those kids on the “Real World,” famous for nothing, but still famous, when you see them as a waiter or in some other service job… They were on your TV, everybody knew their name…and many still do, but so many of these people are broke.

So I’m conflicted. If I’d written about this show after the first three or so episodes, it would have been a complete rave. But now, I’m a bit creeped out. The participants are all just grist for the mill, tools for others to make money. The fame will remain, haunting them, but the money will not.

As for the show itself… It’s a club with a cast party at the end. Which is strange, because so many of these people have trouble making friends at all. And when they go back home…