Gone Girls-The Long Island Serial Killer

Fire this one up right now!

I normally don’t watch documentaries about subjects I’m familiar with, but “Variety” rated this the number one true crime doc of 2025 and I needed some gritty reality and WOW!

Yes, they caught the guy, after decades. I hope I’m not ruining it for you, but why would they make this entire doc if there was no conclusion, no satisfaction? Then again, that’s one of the reasons I’ve steered away from recent true crime documentaries, they too often leave you hanging.

But not this one.

Long Island. You’ve got to know, if you live in Connecticut, you look down on Long Island (as well as New Jersey!) Long Island makes no sense, to get anywhere you first have to drive through New York City. And it’s flat and overpopulated and…

When I was growing up, the Hamptons were not a thing. We were aware they existed, we knew Shelter Island, but make a special trip? I don’t think so. But on a clear day, you could see Long Island from our town in Connecticut, from the high-rise my mother lived in in Bridgeport during the last period of her life. It was right there. And, there’s a ferry from Bridgeport to Port Jefferson…which is no great shakes, although it does come up in this doc. And my mother told me that decades ago, my father invested in a hovercraft service from Bridgeport to Port Jefferson, but it failed. And the whole thing stunned me, because that was so unlike my father. Then again, he was a booster of the city he grew up in, he kept telling us Bridgeport was going to come back and it never did. My mother used to laugh about this. But recently, there was this story about the Park City in the “Washington Post”: 

“An old manufacturing city sputters back to life – Once a hub for guns and electrical wiring, Bridgeport, Connecticut, is now home to artisanal manufacturing businesses and a healthy real estate market.”

https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2025/11/11/manufacturing-innovation-cities-trades/

I forwarded it to my sisters, we smiled, if only my father were alive to see it.

But despite the denigration of Long Island when I was alive, when the aerial shots of the homes came on screen…

I swooned. This was my homeland. Not exactly, but suburbs are suburbs, and those on Long Island were some of the first. I grew up in the suburbs, I could feel the pull.

And then the people! You don’t get people like this on the west coast. It’s subtle, but you can feel the difference. For all the elites, the Ivy Leaguers that consider themselves world-beaters, many of those in the northeast are just surviving. Because life is hard. Because of the weather. Right now it’s sunny in L.A., it’s 65 degrees without a cloud in the sky. In Fairfield, CT, my homeland, they’re actually having a heat wave, it’s 46. But it’s raining. Which means it’s miserable. There’s nothing worse than rain in the winter.

And when the temperature drops the roads ice up (bridges freeze before roads!) and it’s slippery and there are a number of us who live for winter sports, but most people just tough it out, stay inside as much as possible, wait for the renewal of spring. And like Barbra Streisand in “The Way We Were,” I too lament the lack of seasons in L.A… Well, we do have seasons, but you don’t get those feelings you do in the east. That first warm spring day. The autumn one with a slight nip in the air, with leaves on the ground. You need a jacket, but you’re not buttoning down against the cold.

Until November comes along, when the misery season begins, and it isn’t until around the first of April that you know it’s behind you.

So on the east coast you play board games, you drink hot chocolate, which those on the west do not. And it breeds a different kind of person. Yes, more thinking, but not everyone is an intellectual.

Now there are more ethnic groups on the east coast. Most of the kids I went to school with had names that were easy to find in the phone book, because they were unique. Or they ended with a vowel or… Not so on the west coast.

So the people in this doc… The sister with the bad teeth. Her parents probably couldn’t afford orthodontia, but on the west coast, how you look is paramount. And there’s a clear division between those who went to college and those who did not on the east coast, not so much on the west, there are slews of successful, wealthy people out here whose education stopped at high school, or who went to college for only a minute. But if you didn’t go to college on the east coast… It’s like you’re a separate class.

Now most of the houses on Long Island were built after the Second World War, which makes them eighty years old, which seems old, but some of the houses in Bridgeport predate those. I won’t say everybody is living in squalor, but it’s not like the west coast, where almost every house is from the post war era, where everything lasts longer because of the weather. Your car doesn’t rust out here.

So, what you’ve got here is women, really just girls, they’re all young, who turn to escorting to make money. They place ads on Craigslist. And you may abhor this, but how else are these people going to make ends meet? Many already have children. One is on the verge of getting evicted, and if she does she loses her child and…

It’s easy.

And you don’t have to look like a movie star. Not that these women are not attractive. But sex…it makes the world go round, and men will pay for it.

But you might get in trouble.

You watch and you wince. Not because you judge prostitution, but because you realize these women’s opportunities are limited.

And their friends and families… They’re going nowhere fast either.

One girl lives in Norwich, CT, which is in the western part of the state, near the Rhode Island line, her relatives come to the city on motorcycles.

And then you’ve got the group house, with the guy with a long beard and sleeve tattoos, and his buddy with a face tattoo and you know…you can’t look like this and make a zillion dollars unless you’re a pop star, and just like the NBA, very few make it.

So you have the disappeared girls. And no one cares about them, after all they’re prostitutes. But it takes one mother to push and push… If you don’t push nothing happens, the police are overloaded as it is.

And the police… That’s a story unto itself. Are these the best and the brightest? Then there’s the thin blue line and corruption. This is not only a story of finding the perpetrator, but how the system works. And it doesn’t always work so well.

But this is America.

No one wants to believe there’s a serial killer in their midst, because they want to be able to sleep at night.

Musicians are not the only ones who want to become rich and famous. And then there’s the man who hired the police chief because he thought the DA was recommending a credible guy, how could you survive, get this far if you were not honest and trustworthy? Well…

This is not a huge commitment, only three episodes. But you’ll be riveted by not only the story, but the people, the relatives, the officials and…

It didn’t take long for me to be happy I live in California. Then again, there are all these homes on the Long Island coastline. But recent weather events…

It’s a rough life.

But it’s a rough life in general. How do you survive? 

Bad things happen. Who is teaching you values, how to hew the straight and narrow, not to take unjust risks?

Some have parents are riding their kids, keeping them from going off the rails. But it’s a big country, and not all parents fit this mold. And there are uncontrollable kids. But, you could go on an adventure, on a whim and…

Watch this, you won’t be able to take your eyes off it. Even if you think you know the story, you really don’t. 

A+

Carol Leifer-This Week’s Podcast

Legendary comedian/writer.

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/carol-leifer/id1316200737?i=1000744276536

https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9ff4fb19-54d4-41ae-ae7a-8a6f8d3dafa8/episodes/f1369451-80da-40d8-8f18-12e4ec3aa944/the-bob-lefsetz-podcast-carol-leifer

Minneapolis

They always push it too far.

Who you gonna believe, the bloviations of those who were not there or the camera footage you can see with your own two eyes?

Then again, for years now we’ve been told what we see is not true, like with January 6th… It was a peaceful demonstration, don’t you know?

Now the reason I’m bothering to write at all, enduring the wrath of the Trumpers, who will still support the man and his policies even if he starts World War III, is that unforeseen trigger points happen. And the consequences are…

George Conway switches parties and runs for Congress as a Democrat. As if the system can be changed from within, by the same Democrats who refuse to release their investigation of their 2024 loss because it might look bad…yup, it most certainly does, it’s another cover-up, refusal to shed light on the truth that has caused the party to shed members and lose elections. Who can you trust? Seemingly nobody.

As for ICE… They stopped immigration, something that Democrats said couldn’t be done. Kudos. Can’t they stop there? No, this is the essence of the Trump position, we’re going to make you pay, we’re going to stick it to you for all the perceived hurt you’ve imparted upon us. I mean I thought the president was supposed to be on our side, president of all the people…but Trump doesn’t even bother to pay lip service to that.

So, are you afraid of retribution?

Many Americans are. If you didn’t accept the party line on Charlie Kirk, if you expressed your opinion, in many cases, you lost your job. There have been consequences time and again for those who didn’t hew to the Trump party line.

But getting shot in the street..?

What was the big risk here? National security? You’ve got one woman in her Honda…even if she was doing what Kristi Noem and the rest of the administration out of “1984” say she was doing, as in intentionally blocking ICE, should her life be at risk? I mean these poorly trained doofuses hiding behind masks are so trigger happy… Then again, Kyle Rittenhouse is a right wing hero! I mean if you die, that’s it… Doesn’t matter which party you belong to, you’ve been written out of the script.

So how pissed will people become?

Well, there are protests already. Will they spread? I mean it’s not like ICE is centralized, it’s everywhere. Isn’t law enforcement supposed to keep the peace? Aren’t they supposed to be ridding us of illegal criminals? Like this woman in her Honda?

I don’t know what the end result of today’s killing will be, whether there will be a national conflagration or…

It will just be one more of the endless events that come across the transom seemingly every day, illustrating what it must have been like living in Nazi Germany… These actions are taking place in plain sight, you’d think someone would stop them… But no one, not the press, not Congress, in most cases not even the Supreme Court is willing to put up a barrier and say NO MAS!

So it comes down to the people, the public. The buck stops with us. What is it going to take for us to stand up for our rights, to change the course of this country? Is this shooting in cold blood in Minneapolis going to do it?

Maybe not. But with Trump consolidating and exercising power willy-nilly not only in our nation, but all over the world, there comes a point where there’s going to be a concomitant reaction, people can only take so much.

I mean where was the threat?

What next, I have to stay home for fear of being shot by ICE if I’m out on the street?

You can only push it so far before you trigger the public.

And somehow Trump and his minions, who’ve lost touch with the average American, don’t know this. Is the average American going to be mad as hell and not going to endure it anymore, to the point where they take to the streets?

Don’t be surprised if they do.

Looking Forward

People will continue to bitch about Spotify payments, but they won’t change as a result. Believing that Spotify is ripping musicians off is the equivalent of believing in QAnon and other conspiracies. There are only a hundred cents in the dollar and Spotify is paying nearly seventy percent to rightsholders. But somehow Danile Ek is the enemy. As for running ICE ads…that bothers me too, but look what happened to the Hilton hotel that refused to admit ICE agents. Be very afraid of going against Trump and the government.

Meanwhile, Spotify is investing in a video podcast studio: 

“Spotify digs in on podcasts with new Hollywood studios”

https://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/business/story/2026-01-07/spotify-opens-new-podcasting-studio-in-hollywood

When was the last time one of the three major labels invested in anything? They’re giant banking concerns at this point, trying to leverage their assets for AI the same way they leverage their assets to extract a fee from online companies that want to use music. The question always arises…are these funds trickling down to the artists?

Ticketing fees won’t decline. They’re part of the business. Bitching about ticketing fees is like complaining about the transportation fee on your new car…it ain’t going away. But just like prices of cars fluctuate, so do ticket prices. For all the ink about the high price of tickets, the truth is prices will fall for mid-market/less desirable acts playing in buildings a bit too big for them. The inventory has got to move. And no one likes playing to a half-full house. No one gives money back to Live Nation, and Live Nation must make its nut.

Acts will continue to sell their publishing…continuing to demonstrate they are ignorant when it comes to finances and their handlers want a percentage of a big check. Maybe if you’re an oldsters and you’re doing it for estate planning… Watch this video for edification on royalties and how they go up over time:

“Stephen Bishop: Top Five Songs by Income (1975-2000)

@lizthemusicmanager

@Stephen Bishop songs by income, 1975 to 2000. Includes publishing, record sales, writer share, and radio performance royalties. Does not include streaming, SoundExchange, touring, or sync. . . #fyp #musicindustry #musicbusiness #musicindustrytips #musicpublishing

? original sound – Liz The Music Manager

The best and the brightest will continue to not enter the music industry, which is a closed club that doesn’t want new members and doesn’t pay enough anyway. The big checks working for the man have evaporated, the money Lucian Grainge got for Universal going public is the last big payday. Sure, top execs are well-compensated, but they’ve paid their dues over years. The only big money available to newcomers is in management, where the odds of success are long. In the old days, with music generating as much of an income, if not more, than any occupation in America, the renegades who didn’t fit in all entered the music business. Today the business is calcified and like I said, you can make much more money elsewhere, in finance and tech. So we’ve got the lowest common denominator people becoming acts…those with no options because they’ve got little education, and as for working at companies…you can’t make money without paying your dues for a long time, and therefore if you want to be closer to music it’s easier to just buy a ticket than work behind the scenes.

Demand will continue to exceed supply for superstar concert tickets.

Rather than figure out ways to break new acts, the majors will continue to cut back on expenditures to add to the bottom line.

Television will continue to decline as an exposure opportunity for music, did you see that Kimmel is cutting back?

“‘Jimmy Kimmel Live’ to Decrease Music Performances to a ‘Variable’ Number Per Week”

https://variety.com/2026/music/news/jimmy-kimmel-live-to-decrease-music-performances-1236624638/

KPop numbers will continue to grow, however other than HUNTR/X and other beneficiaries of “KPop Demon Hunters,” they all will be the equivalent of a walled garden, i.e. a silo, i.e. either you’re interested or you’re not, and most people are not. This is the story of music today, there’s tons of bluster how big acts are, but their reach/popularity is very narrow. The majors could make music that appeals to a broader spectrum of listeners, but that’s too heavy a lift/too big an investment of time and in many cases too unhip for the majors to do.

You will continue to be exposed to buzz on acts that you will check out and scratch your head over, wondering why you should be interested.

There will be continued efforts on brand extension/merchandising. The music is just a jumping off point.

The channel will continue to be flooded with mediocre acts spamming the marketplace to try and get attention that they do not deserve.

Short term thinking will continue to rule. KPop didn’t happen overnight, for over a decade those involved were organizing/scheming/creating until there was finally a breakthrough. No one in the U.S. working for the establishment is willing to think outside the box and do this. Innovation always comes from the outside, the inside is moribund.

The basics will continue to be ignored. The audience is looking for someone who can sing and write…well. Too many acts feature substandard vocals and when the song is written by committee it is less believable, less identified with the singer. People need to believe the song is the singer’s life.

Country will continue to gobble up market share.

Pop will get all the attention, but never has pop had less impact on the market, most people don’t care. It’s like the days of Fabian and Bobby Rydell except even those two-dimensional acts had a greater footprint than today’s so-called hitmakers.

Will this be the year that acoustic music finally breaks through big? The vaunted singer-songwriter? Unfortunately, there are too many people playing in this space who do not deserve attention, which makes it harder for the focus to be on someone who does.

Classic rockers will continue to die. This probably is the last time. If you want to see them, go now!

Stadium tours will continue to do boffo at the b.o. That’s how much of a desire there is to see superstars.

Acts will continue to be unable to say no. Other than those with no traction with no offers anyway. In other words, everybody will sell out for a buck.

The Kardashians will continue to have more purchase on the marketplace than musical acts, because the penumbra is easier to manufacture and maintain than the essence, the soul. The Kardashians are all penumbra, i.e. the external, the look, the products… In music the essence is key. The penumbra comes later, and if you can say no to the penumbra, the essence grows.

The Spotify Top 50, the only chart that matters, will continue to be populated with acts that sound manufactured, that have no reach.

Acts will continue to boast about setting records that are manipulated and ultimately not meaningful, aided by the weighted Luminate chart. The only thing that matters is streaming, how many streams did a song have… Furthermore, when it comes to streams, a free one is as valuable as a paid one. There should be a separate chart for sales only, a sideshow…then, of course, vinyl sales will crater, because vinyl is sold in many iterations to falsely boost overall chart numbers.