From: Joseph A. Ondris

Re: Jimmy Kimmel Last Night

You are the  MOST biased person I know and an old out  of touch old geezer that you

How’s  California going … I can’t think of a place destroyed outright by policy more then your sh*thole

Sad but true

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Re: Jimmy Kimmel Last Night

Bob.  You’ve been saying for ages that musicians need to stand for something again.

In a vanilla world where everyone is scared to be cancelled. Who would have thought that it would be a late night tv host in a suit that was more punk rock than most bands out there

Jason Perry

Producer / Writer / Other Stuff

https://www.jasonperry.london/

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From: Patrick V. Cook

Re: Jimmy Kimmel Last Night

I reject this notion of “right wing.” I think it’s the right WAY, and liberals are trying to f*ck it all up because they think f*ckin stuff up is progress – which is morally and intellectually false.

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Subject: What people don’t get about late-night TV

Nexstar is shooting itself in the foot, because exerting such control over local stations will just hasten the decline of network television, which would make Nexstar increasingly irrelevant. I saw a graph posted online that showed how much the audience for late-night TV shows has declined over the years, with the comment “This explains it all. No one likes these late-night comics.”

 

Except he also didn’t post a graphic showing streaming stats. Kimmel has an average of 1.77 million viewers a night on network TV, but he has 20,000,000 subscribers on YouTube and his show segments invariably pull in 3+ million views. Some of his segments go viral and get over 10 million views. So, late-night TV *viewing* may be dying. But late-night TV *content* is thriving more than ever.

Craig Anderton

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Re: Jimmy Kimmel Comes Back

Over the weekend we cancelled our Disney subscription in protest of its treatment of Jimmy Kimmel.

At the same time, our family could only wonder why Disney did not stand firm with Kimmel against Trump.  Wasn’t this the company that taught us to stand up against the ignorant and intolerant (Belle against Gaston), the deceitful (Simba against Scar), the vain (Snow White against the Evil Queen), the cruel (1001 Dalmatians against Cuella de Vil) and the power hungry (Prince Ali against Jafar).

Disney knows how to write this script.

Reinstating Kimmel is a good start.

And I hope this story ends with the renewal of our subscription- and many others.

I’ll be watching Tuesday night.

P. V. Nunes

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Re: Jimmy Kimmel Last Night

If I get my medical advice from an x-junkie like Bobby-Jr ~ I think I would prefer a man like Keith Richard’s a person with more medical experience ~

R Singer

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Re: Kimmel Comes Back

You are so right about what happened at MCA/Universal and at Warner.  I worked at MCA/Universal for 25 years, including when Doug Morris came on board, and while we had already acquired Geffen Records under Al Teller, the “music men” in Doug’s C-suite (many of them Warner execs that we had poached) took us to the stratosphere with the purchase of Polygram.  While they obviously knew how to identify musical talent, they also knew how to identify and maintain executive talent that appreciated the intersection of business and creativity.  Lucian’s team has mostly continued that tradition, but taking a company from last place to first is a much heavier lift than defending your crown.

By the time I got to Warner as Chief Data Officer, the culture was one in which executives from other industries (film, advertising, tech) were brought in to shake things up without any “feel” for the history of the business or the uniqueness of music as a consumer product.  I will not deny that balancing the old and the new is a supremely difficult feat, but Universal’s success and Warner’s “long, slow decline” is fundamentally a result of getting the balance right vs. pushing too far to one side.

Regards

Vinnie Freda

Former EVP of UMG

Former CDO of WMG

Owner of Record Research Inc.

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Re: Men In America

Toward the end of the MeToo movement I remember turning to my wife and saying, “America can continue to label white males as pieces of sh*t for so long before they are going to push back.” It wasn’t an indictment of the movement. People like Weinstein are human garbage and needed to be dealt with. But the left took it too far. For the last two decades or so, the LGBTQ movement has made a lot of progress. Much of the messaging during this time was that everyone should be allowed to freely express who they are. They shouldn’t feel that they have to suppress how they feel to please others. Spot on correct, totally agree. While this was going on, there was definitely a mood change toward alpha males. Much of their behavior was labeled gross or toxic. They became the villain. And the messaging was very clear that alpha males needed to change who they were, resist and control their natural urges and control their behavior. In the case of the MeToo movement a broader net was cast and all males were basically told to sit down, shut up and listen.

I’m not at ALL defending rape or sexual assualt, that is not what I am getting at. But, the left simultaneously wanted to empower the LQBTQ community and tell them, “Be who you are,” while also telling alpha males to change or resist who they are.

And then along comes Trump who tells them, “I can solve all your problems. It’s the woke culture. It’s women. It’s immigrants. It’s people of color. It’s DEI. I’ll wipe it all out and make your lives better.” And to an unstable mind that likely hasn’t even begun to deal with any of their childhood trauma, this makes sense.

Neil Johnson

P.S. Re: Jimmy Kimmel: Put simply, Trump and his supporters just aren’t smart. What’s worse, and more embarrassing, is how insecure he is. If he/they had treated Kimmel as a non issue, people like me wouldn’t have known what was said. But his ego couldn’t let it go and Kimmel is (even if it’s temporary) more popular than ever. Trump touts himself as some self aggrandized businessman. He’s an idiot. All he’s done is promote Kimmel’s brand. He is such a child and it’s exhausting waking up everyday wondering, “What’s this fool going to do now?”

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Re: Men In America

You have probably listened to Galloway and the Mooch podcast. Lost Boys. The say exactly what you did here. I told my wife and other women the ideas and they got very defensive. My wife said “men don’t know what it’s like worrying all your life about rape”. That really shocked me. So I’ve asked numerous women if they have lived like that. Literally every one of them said absolutely.

I found that stunning.

On the podcast Scott said if a woman is in a situation in public where she is afraid she should ask a man to escort her to her car because men are physically stronger and can be the deterrent. Women I spoke to responded to that by saying you don’t know if the guy you ask is the one who will harm you.

Its pretty obvious we in America have created a society where over decades, systematically, common  people have gotten poorer.

To counteract that,we created programs to assist. Snap, medicaid being the biggest. Instead of increasing wages, 1099 work is more rampant and employers don’t have to pay because the government fills in the gaps. Men without a college education fill these positions and have found the message on the right compelling.

Now we are at a pretty much unsustainable level.

As one of the other readers you posted in a mailbag said, and I’m paraphrasing, “late stage capitalism is finally here”.

Marty Walsh

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Re: Men In America

Well described Bob. I think about this a lot because I have five sons including grown and also 2 y/o and 5 y/o. The only part missing from your write up is how the pandemic isolated boys in their teens more so which has compounded many of the problems of going from boy to man in the age you describe. Keep sharing your observations on this topic. Thanks

John Roberts

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Re: Men In America

A thoughtful piece, sir. I always appreciate your insight.

I wonder if the Oasis juggernaut speaks to this issue. So many of my friends and their kids have reached out to me about what it all means. They don’t remember being that fond of the band nor are they that into their music. Yet, they find themselves drawn to the whole spectacle in a way they can’t explain.

Oasis is a mediocre musical group, but they are unabashedly rock and roll. Drunk, irreverent and unapologetic. All attitude.  Piss and vinegar. They are testosterone unleashed and on full display.

Rock and roll at its core is simply testosterone in audible form. All attitude, sex and swagger. Sweaty men with hairy chests and bulges in their pants screaming about girls and good times. We had our choices of leaders back in the day: Plant, Daltrey, Ozzy, Roth, Axl and hundreds of others. Rock and roll: all balls, blood and sweat.

Somewhere along the way, that all disappeared and gave us the sensitive sad boy pop of Mayer, Sheeran, Styles, et al.  Good music, but just….missing something.  Something human and primal.

It is against this backdrop that makes the raw masculinity and brashness of Oasis so striking.  We haven’t had that spirit here since….1995(?).  What can a poor boy do?

Phil Pritchett

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As a suburban left-leaning semi-libertarian, I’ve noticed that same attitude when we play gigs in the bright red rural areas of central NY. We still have our fans that have followed us for several decades, but back in the days of “Up Against the Wall Redneck Mother” and “Long Haired Country Boy”, they were just good old boys doing what their tribe has been doing for generations. They might have mocked the college bros and downtown dudes, but they didn’t hate them. Of course, that was before politics permeated every corner of our existence. Now those same people fly Trump flags and wear MAGA hats and hate the libs. But if they know you, you’re still a friend, and they’ll have your back when the chips are down.

So at a typical gig at a country bar, people dance, clap, cheer the solos, hug us and get us high on the breaks, and buy our CDs (don’t underestimate that market, these are the people who actually still own CD players). They take videos and post them online along with comments about how the band was on fire last night. It’s big fun, all the way. But when I bring out friends from suburbia, the business world, or the country club, they roll their eyes and say “wow, rough crowd.” And that happens even if I warned them to wear jeans and leave the khakis and polo shirts at home, so it’s not like they’re getting the side eye from the locals. They’re just too uptight to relax, suspend their judgments, and have a good time. And I’ll mock that myself, because it’s the exact problem you’re talking about. If they want to wallow in their success, they can do that, and they can afford to, so good for them. I prefer to wallow in humanity, in all its glorious forms.

Best regards,

C Darryl Mattison

Utica NY

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From: Hope Dlugozima

Re: Men In America

you’re getting at this good truths here, Bob (and I write this as the mom of two kids in their mid-20s). but its not just guys in the trades…my college grad/successful son is fully in the Vance/Kirk camp and articulates the same feelings that you write of.  and this is spot-on.

Men are different from women, don’t try to turn them into metrosexuals and don’t pooh-pooh all their behavior. Everybody wants to keep men in a box.

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Totally agree with your closing point re the “problem here”. Harris was no different than Gore and Kerry. The only thing I remember from her closing campaign speech was a big shoutout to the LGBTQ community, a move with no other impact than enraging and getting out the vote for MAGA. She had the LGBTQ vote in the bag. Should have gone on Rogan, too. And, like Hillary and Kerry, she had the chops to viciously smack down Trump in a debate (see Senate hearings with Kavanaugh), but she just shook her head instead. That’s Dem SOP. I still believe that if Kerry had turned to Dubya, pointed at him, and said, “Don’t you EVER question my combat service to this country when you have done NOTHING”, he would have won. Ditto if Hillary had stopped when Trump stalked around the stage, turned, pointed a Trump’s lectern, and said, “What do you think you are doing? Get back to your place,” she would have closed it. These things are authentic and create huge energy. And respect. But here we are. Harris shook her head and defended Biden while Walz collapsed in front of coach boy when America reached a crossroads…and then chose Trump.

Robert Bond

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From: Coliln Dutton

Re: Men In America

Thanks Bob,
Great insights once again.

I’ve thought about this issue for a while now and I think the focus that has been put on girls over the last two or three decades has left boys without that same or equal attention.  Not that girls didn’t deserve it but it almost seems like boys have been punished for wretched behavior they/we have sometimes displayed previously.  Now we have marginalized boys growing into marginalized men who have less wits but the same amount of testosterone. This is and has always been a bad combination.  We need men to be smart so the chances of there being at least one smart voice in the room is increased.  Some of those rooms are bereft of anyone with a sense of reason which is how revolutions start.

As for getting these men back into the game?  I think we ask them for help. Business 101 tells us to ask someone for a favor to win their trust and this ask might also give them a purpose. How this is done is above my pay grade but I feel like this is the direction the world needs to move in to win back the bro’s.

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Re: Men In America

My question is, when do you become a man? Your first drink? First f*ck? First deer you kill? At least in the US (and the West in general), we lack defined rituals of manhood. I think this causes men to act out more- you’re never sure you are really a man, so you feel you have to prove it over and over.

Riffing on your points – maybe people feel that having a lot of power and money does make you a man, so those without either always feel insecure, and those with both never have enough.

Being a man these days is a treacherous path lined with landmines. Yes, I know being a woman isn’t exactly a picnic, but to your point, that doesn’t mean we ignore the problems men have.

Dave Richards

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Wow. What a take! I applaud you for putting yourself out there with this! I couldn’t agree with you more. I have noticed the chilling effect in my life and career. I am a road crew guy, a true roadie I smoke, I drink, I occasionally do drugs, I’m a veteran of two wars, I’m loud. I have been foes from gigs because I was too male. True story – was doing lighting for a drag tour, I don’t care what it is – I’m there for a check, and a nice one at that. I truly thought it was interesting and funny, some of the performers were hysterical and nice people.  However, when I quite vocally asked a gay cast mate to stop touching me inappropriately or I would knock him out I was fired. I asked nicely the 1st time and laughed it off, the second time I was firm and said “listen that’s not me,  please don’t touch me” – no avail. 3rd time on the bus after getting done with a load out was accosted again I said to the man you touch me again Ill knock your teeth in.

I went to production and they laughed at me and literally told me to stop being homophobic. I said calmly, as I am a big guy, “imagine if I was a woman and made this claim”. Crickets.

after the episode I was fired for homophobic behavior – and slandered until I sent the videos I had taken to my rather large production company and mentioned the words I will be retaining counsel to sue for sexual harassment. That seemed to catch someone’s eye, and was placed on another tour immediately. The point I’m making is that there are rules for

They/Them but not for thee. It’s disgusting how men are immediately looked as the problem until they are needed to fight wars and lift heavy truss and lights. I am not a right wing blowhard or a super liberal but Jesus Christ can I live a little? You’re so right in what you’re saying Bob. The left doesn’t want to listen to anyone except themselves- and that’s a circle jerk! Hell I’m a republican (or what used to be one) and I am begging the left to give me anyone else!!!

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Re: Rosh Hashanah

I guess not all Rosh Hashhannas are for celebrating. This is the equivalent of a new year’s following a really bad year.

I’m from Panama, artist and jew. This week we’re hosting Premios Juventud, which are very big Latin Grammy-like event that has never been hosted outside the US.

Because i am in cinema, musical theatre and music i get to be in the front line of the “avant-garde” way of thinking, which includes a very superficial form of “Free Palestine” while in Costa Rica a synagoge was vandalized last week. Coming from an orthodox community, here in Panama in the holidays everybody’s walking down the street in groups.

It’s overwhelming to feel fear for those who are visibly jewish in the streets, to be thankful latin music industry hasn’t eaten the free palestine agenda and at the same time being constantly attacked by the cinema/musical theatre scene because i’m jewish and zionist… like you said, you can separate the terms but i truly truly doubt you could ever separate the difference in people’s mind.

By reading you, i feel the pain but less alone… i guess as in many moments in history, jews had to feel like that, a hybrid between come what may and we’re not alone.

Shanna Tova, stay safe and keep being.

Arian S. Abadi
www.arianabadi.com

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From many

Re; Kimmel Comes Back

“Even Michael Eisner backed Disney.”

 

I’m sure everyone has told you that Eisner backed Kimmel and blasted Carr…

(Note: My mistake. My excuse is I was writing quickly to deadline and I missed it. Sorry!)

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Re: Rosh Hashanah

I remember learning about the Holocaust when I was a youngster in school many years ago and having an overwhelming thought that I could never shake— BUT HOW COULD PEOPLE HAVE POSSIBLY LET THAT HAPPEN?! How was it even possible for people to be so complacent for such a horrific genocide to occur?

And yet, here we are…

Thanks always for your writing, Bob.

Melissa Marchese

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Re: Rosh Hashanah

Thoughtful and pretty much on target. As a Jew living in Canada our government has stood with France, Great Britain and too many others giving legitimacy to a Palestinian State, brilliant. If you go back historically just a few hundred years ago there was no Palestine no or any tribe or people called Palestinians. Thank the Brits for their wisdom when they took over the region after WW1 and then walked away after WW2 leaving the region to its own devices. Back to modern times and talking about our culture and constantly being under a microscope and always waiting for the next pogrom or Kristallnacht. I have long been involved with Human Rights and a strong supporter of our people. I am getting tired and frustrated at the constant hate and battle we go through. In fact due to the recent response I received from a so-called non Jewish friend to something I reposted that summed up what we have been through as a people over the millenia through to today I have decided to no longer talk politics or religion and keep it simple sports and music from hereon in. The response was full of venom and hate directed at what he described the criminal and disgusting state of Israel. In addition he insisted that if any members of the IDF immigrated to Canada they should be arrested by the Canadian government and tried for war crimes. Oh he went on and on and I asked him if we should do the same to any members of Hamas, Hezbollah who made their way to Canada, never got a response, just more blowback about Israel. I know you have visited on a number of occasions. Bob we have idiots, MAGA and non-thinkers up here. Nobody ever said it easy being a Jew wherever you live. I too out of habit attend services online. My temple of choice is the Central Synagogue in Manhattan. Interesting Rabbi and everbody on the bima could or maybe has sung on some broadway production, great voices. From a Jew in Canada to one in the US Shana Tovah.

David Stein

Ottawa

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From: Khila Khani

Re: Rosh Hashanah

Yes, there are risks to attending any building where people gather. I can’t say I’m very religious, but I’m fiercely cultural and proud of my heritage. My synagogue is quite a special little reform synagogue that began in the 70’s, built by a community of people generally have stuck around, people I have known my whole life. This little synagogue is struggling, just like every other house of worship and every congregant has felt that greater distance from religious institutions but….this year, I noticed something about Rosh Hashana services were different.

 

This year, the sanctuary was filled with levity, laughter and incredible music. It’s like we all stepped into a space and time that allowed us to take a pause with one another in a real communal way, and without the distractions of life.

Each year, I’m honored to contribute my talents and have served as our synagogue’s shofar blower (he wasn’t that great a driver), for over 10 years. During the first round, I thought I was supposed to begin playing notes and lifted my shofar up to my lips too soon, but quickly realized the error and returned to my original position. The movement seemed to generate a huge roar of laughter from the congregants and made me feel less anxious about the notes that followed.

When sounding the shofar, there are a total of 4 rounds of shofar blasts. The last round, typically consists of the same set of notes as the 3 rounds before, but the last note, the g’dola, is the meant to be played the longest. I can typically last around 30-50 seconds, but the Rabbi changed things up on me this year. Instead of playing all the notes first and then the g’dola at the end, after we clinked horns, and then he decides to ONLY play the last note. Not knowing this, I don’t prep m6 breathing properly for the long blast, but do it anyway. As I’m playing the note, I feel the air completely escape my body, and continue repeating in my head…”don’t pass out, don’t pass out, don’t pass out….” I manage to keep it together and actually outlast the Rabbi, but only by a second or two. After I finish, I slightly stumble backwards, but nobody really notices. They embrace the errors, they appreciate having this time together, but really all they see is how much joy this service has brought to the community.

And finally, Bob, wishing you a very Happy New Year. May you be inscribed in the book of life. This note’s for you!

Lots of love,

Khila

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Re: Rosh Hashanah

Bob, I really appreciate your letters.  It (you) were recommended years ago by my sons’ music manager in NYC, Peter Casperson, as a must read.

My boys, formerly the Abrams Brothers, now the Abrams. They’re heading to Israel next week to play a festival at Kfar Blum.

The festival, Jacob’s Ladder, is a mix of expat Americans, Brits, Canadians and Israelis. My boys have played the festival many times since 2007. And though they’re now young men, I still tag along. We love the country and the people. So, thanks again for your letters.

Kind regards,

Brian Abrams

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From: Paul Lohr

Subject: RE: Falling

Bob,   I am sorry to read about your fall.  My wife read that most accidents happen within 10 miles of your home.  So we moved.

Sincerely,

Paul

Of Evanescence.

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Used to want to be rock stars.

But that was back before the cell phone camera. All the perks of being a rock star are gone. You can no longer rape and pillage across America, and you aren’t even that rich, so where is the opportunity?

Rape and pillage. You can’t use the former word if you’re a male. It’s taboo. The language police will get you. As a matter of fact, if you’re male in America today you’re constrained, you’re issued a list of taboo behaviors at birth and if you cross them…

Now of course this doesn’t apply to all men. But somewhere along the line all men were considered macho boors. You’re lumped into that category by your penis, period. You’re aggressive and macho and not in touch with your feelings and if we don’t constrain you, there will be trouble.

Not if you’re a college graduate, not if you’re a winner, but not everybody can be a winner.

And if you don’t go to college, where does that leave you?

With the short end of the stick, not much money and not much power. All you can do is sit around and let your anger stew, get drunk, listen to bro podcasts.

The left brought this upon itself. Hell, the most reasonable of men can’t live up to Democratic standards. They too are lumped into the macho bag, any rough edges are decried, if you don’t acknowledge the equality and power of women you’re a pariah. Truly.

Hang with me here. I’m trying to explain the vibe, where we were, how we got here, if you’re nitpicking you’re missing the point.

I’m inundated with right wing blowback. Which is marked by misspellings and bad grammar. Just today I got an e-mail from someone talking about Jimmy Kimmal and Jay Lenno…

What has that person’s life been like? Probably not good. Because if you make mistakes like this chances are you are not educated and cannot get a good job and therefore you are resentful. And this resentment trumps everything else in your life, this is why you vote for Trump.

You’re driving Uber. You’re barely making ends meet. And all you hear about is social welfare for people of color and the disadvantaged. It’s not that you’re really against these people getting help, but you’re pissed that no one is looking out for you, no one is taking action regarding your problems. Where are the better jobs? And if I hang with my bros and get high after work I’m still going to be denigrated.

We all need something to live for. For most it’s job or family or both.

But what if you have a lousy job and can’t get laid.

To you it looks like the world has been feminized. Look at the Spotify Top 50, dominated by KPop Demon Hunters. Sure, there are male fans of KPop, but if you’d rather wrestle and talk about hunting, is this going to be your music?

And we do have a problem with guns in America, but there are people who like to hunt. But if you kill anything in America today you’re the problem, not the solution, even though in many areas conservation is handled via hunting, otherwise deer and other animals would overwhelm the area.

You’re constantly being told that your behavior and values are wrong.

Don’t confuse these men with religious zealots, or rich profiteers, they’re the rank and file. They listen to Rogan and Theo Von not because they think they’re right so much as these guys don’t talk down to them, they make them feel COMFORTABLE!

Come on… You see a guy with a blue collar job driving an old pickup and you don’t judge them? Maybe you don’t, but a lot of educated/desirable women do. And if these guys dare to approach women…they’ve got to run a gauntlet to get access. No means no…

There are many bad actors who need to be taught limits. Then there are normal guys, maybe insecure and shy, who’d have trouble with women in any event but are lumped in with bad actors…

It’s kind of like mass shooters. The main thing they have in common is mental derangement. But if a shooter is trans or has any other characteristic, if you share it, you’re tarred too.

Are macho males going to be fans of Justin Bieber?

Look once again at the Spotify Top 50. We’ve got Alex Warren and Benson Boone and the sexed-up Disney star Sabrina Carpenter? She’s enticing all the men who know they’ve got absolutely no chance, despite decrying her pop music. But all the media is raving about her and Taylor Swift and Olivia Rodrigo and…where are the concomitant male stars, marinating in their maleness?

Well, there are some in the heavy metal/active rock world… Then again, a lot of them are cartoons, not truly dangerous, that’s just an image. If you want something that resonates, you go to the Gathering of the Juggalos.

Or are a fan of a dangerous rapper. One who brandishes a weapon and risks going to jail. That guy is STICKING IT TO THE MAN! Somebody’s got to do it. Many males see men who test limits as part of a great rebellion, a great reaction, against a system that keeps them down.

One of the reasons the left can’t get organized against the right is because those on the left have it pretty good, are complacent. They’re not worried about the working man, which is why these people are now Republicans, they can only provide lip service.

So you’ve got Scott Galloway and others talking about how we have to lift up young men. I’d say we have to change the attitudes of those who are already here.

Men are different from women, don’t try to turn them into metrosexuals and don’t pooh-pooh all their behavior. Everybody wants to keep men in a box.

As for the male leaders on the left…

Who can identify with Chuck Schumer? And Gavin Newsom is slick. As for Cory Booker…I’ve never met anybody like him. Where can I see people like myself, that’s what men want to know.

Well, those guys aren’t given positions of power because they have edges that are too rough. Which is why men cotton to Elon Musk, because at least he’s unconstrained, he’s got power.

You might look at the downsides of Musk, but what are you providing in the alternative?

Talk about orthodoxy… A male might vote for Kamala Harris for intellectual reasons, but emotional ones? She’s as phony and wishy-washy as they come. But if a male says this he’s accused of breaking the Democratic code, and if you do this they don’t want you around… Big tent, my ass.

You went to high school, didn’t you? What did it feel like to be left out, to have no power. You weren’t cool, you weren’t part of the student government, you didn’t play on a sports team, it’s almost like you didn’t exist. But supposedly graduation was liberation. NOT ANYMORE! Regular life is like the purgatory of high school.

And the funny thing is if you don’t play along, it drives the women and their minions NUTS! If you say something politically incorrect, they just can’t handle it. You’d think that you shot someone.

And where are the men on the left saying NO MAS! Standing up to the pronoun and trans people in sports and men having babies rhetoric. Everyone on the left is so afraid of offending a single person that they bend over backwards to defend every person, to the point of ridiculousness. But they aren’t bending over backward to support the average male, who is considered to have been born on third base.

We don’t live in a post-racial society, but to look at everything through the lens of the past is plain wrong. Women may still be disadvantaged, but they’ve come a long way, baby. And the problem with DEI isn’t that those gaining advantage are unworthy, but more WHO’S LOOKING OUT FOR ME!

Let’s be clear. I’m focusing on a subset of the population. Not every man and not every Republican man. But there are those those who believe they got a raw deal and no one is listening to them. And believe me, no one on the left is. It’s like showing up at a black tie event in a Canadian tuxedo. You stand out and are laughed at.

You just don’t do it right. People are constantly watching you for bad behavior.

We don’t need a major adjustment here, only a subtle one.

Men can’t be guilty until proven innocent. Not every male is a wannabe rapist.

As for behavior… Why is it only girls’ actions are approved. So, the male world tends to be more physical…do we have to leave all of our maleness aside to be accepted?

Women need men too.

And women get to choose. Never underestimate that.

As for the media… It’s so afraid of being excoriated by the left wing police that it’s complicit.

From little kids to adults, we have to change our behavior towards men. If a little boy is running ragged on the playground, raising his voice, he is not defective. Ditto men. But they’re told they never grew up.

Wow.

Is it worse being poor and broke and a person of color? ABSOLUTELY! But that does not mean the plight of the average male should be forsaken.

We’ve got a problem here, and those on the left aren’t even aware of it.

They created this problem. They created the men on the right who hate the libs.

And they give these men no reason to love them.

Think about it.

You don’t poke the bear.

Let’s say you’re called into the principal’s office. And this puffed-up authority figure starts coming down on you, reciting your so-called offenses… You hang your head and listen. You stay quiet. You certainly don’t bark back, because of the CONSEQUENCES!

The principal has the power and you don’t. You will ultimately be gone, but the school will remain. The institution is bigger than the individual. Therefore, you must heed its rules, however insane they might be.

But not Jimmy Kimmel.

The course of behavior was clear. Jimmy needed to do a bit of a mea culpa and then go completely off topic, steer clear of the controversy, but Kimmel LEANED IN!

My inbox is full of right wingers telling me Kimmel isn’t funny and he and late night will soon be gone. That’s completely missing the point, in a world where what is said today may not even be remembered tomorrow. The future has never appeared less locked down. The nation is in turmoil. You fight your battles today, because the war might be over by tomorrow.

So Jimmy comes on and says it was never about Charlie Kirk, says that no one should die for their beliefs. And then…

He lays into Trump and Carr. Hangs them with their own words, and then twists the knife.

Now wait just a second… This is America, you’re just a cog in the system, you think you can change the world?

YES! That’s the power of the individual, that’s what the Democrats have been lacking, someone to stand up for their beliefs and damn the consequences.

So what are the consequences?

Disney ain’t gonna fire Kimmel, not for quite a while, if ever…because the company is afraid that if they do none of the talent in Hollywood will want to work with them and they’ll be SOL.

And the flame of hope has been lit under those who are unhappy with Trump and his policies, who believe they have no options.

Turns out they do. And it comes down to something very simple, money. As the Kinks say:

“Money talks and we’re the living proof

There ain’t no limit to what money can do

Money talks, money talks”

But it’s about more than money. Kimmel has blazed a trail for others, who have been too fearful to reveal their beliefs. To quote Elton, he’s still standing. Yes, you can take a position and still stand too.

Too many on the left have been overwhelmed by right wing blowback. It’s not only corporations, but citizens. Everybody’s on the rear foot, everybody’s afraid. But if Jimmy Kimmel can not only survive, but push the envelope even further, so can they.

Will Nextstar and Sinclair come back?

Probably not before their merger issues are decided by the government. But after that?

The tide is turning. Trump says that ABC settled once before… But they were playing by Mafia rules, not legal rules, and Homey don’t play that no more.

This is classic government overreach. And it looked like no one was going to stand up to Trump and then he and his minions pushed it too far, with Kimmel.

Never mind that unlike Mafioso they say what they’re going to do, reveal their heinous policies, up front and personal, for all the world to see.

And it’s one thing to be anti-vaccine, but quite another to blame autism on acetaminophen, a word which Trump found almost impossible to pronounce.

Have you seen the video? Trump’s mispronunciation was all over TikTok and Instagram Reels. You couldn’t avoid it.

And is there anybody who doesn’t love Tylenol? The most benign of pain relievers? Take away my vaccine, but don’t take away my Tylenol!

Which Trump never would have taken a stand on if he didn’t feel a need to defend the unscientific policies of RFK, Jr.

Yes, yes, yes…there are Trumpers who seem to defend everything he does. But the dirty little secret here is for most it’s not about Trump, it’s about hating the libs, and it’s hard to come to the defense of someone who is self-immolating.

And then there’s the reach of Kimmel’s words.

There were endless videos on TikTok long before the show even aired on the west coast.

As of this writing, the official ABC YouTube post has over 14 million views.

Jimmy Kimmel is not dumb. He knows the reach of the actual broadcast is de minimis, but he told me YEARS AGO that it was all about creating clips for social media. And in that world, he is triumphing.

So for eight months Trump believed he was inviolate. But now he knows that he is not. Sure, Trump has doubled-down on his hatred of Kimmel and the rest of the late night hosts, but they’re still on. And following in Kimmel’s slipstream, comedians are no longer going to be fearful of the consequences of doing anti-Trump material, it’s not like YouTube is going to cancel them.

And the dirty little secret is a tiny number of people have had broad effects in media censorship, oftentimes just one or two letters or calls, far from millions. But Disney heard from the true silent majority, the ones who haven’t dedicated their lives to petty scuffles on FOX, but have been living their lives until…

They were pushed one step too far.

So who is going to stop Trump?

Certainly not his cronies, certainly not Congress, they’re all in.

Trump would rather shut down the government than listen to Democrats. Then again, he’s suddenly done a 180 on Ukraine and Zelensky. Wasn’t Putin Donald’s honest friend?

I guess not.

So, Trump can pivot, the key is for those with a voice and the public not to be assuaged by these small changes, not to be satisfied. When you’ve got someone on the run, you keep them running.

I can debate with Republicans all day long about the welfare state, taxes, but when it comes to basic American rights…

There’s only one rule of law.

If you don’t start exercising your freedoms today, they will be gone tomorrow. You must make a stand before it’s too late.

Just like Jimmy Kimmel.