{"id":544,"date":"2006-09-28T08:25:50","date_gmt":"2006-09-28T16:25:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/archives\/2006\/09\/28\/the-feeling\/"},"modified":"2006-09-28T08:27:33","modified_gmt":"2006-09-28T16:27:33","slug":"the-feeling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/2006\/09\/28\/the-feeling\/","title":{"rendered":"The Feeling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>1<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>People in love get lost and foolish<br \/>People in love get everything wrong<br \/>People in love get scared and stupid<br \/>People in love get everything wrong<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>At least they&#8217;re not lonely<br \/>At least they&#8217;re not lonely<br \/>Never be lonely<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I wish money solved all problems.\u00c2\u00a0 Then the path would be clear.\u00c2\u00a0 Kind of like winning a sporting event.\u00c2\u00a0 Just score enough points and you triumph.<\/p>\n<p>But life is murkier than that.\u00c2\u00a0 There&#8217;s a cornucopia of choices, and no manual delineating appropriate behavior.\u00c2\u00a0 Our parents try to steer us, inculcating values and emphasizing education, hoping we end up with enough money to make it through when they&#8217;re gone.\u00c2\u00a0 And we&#8217;re bombarded by marketing messages, telling us if we just do this or that we&#8217;ll be the one.\u00c2\u00a0 And if the foregoing is just too confusing there&#8217;s religion, a glorified cult that will dictate how to behave.\u00c2\u00a0 But religion has a secret weapon.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s the people.\u00c2\u00a0 That&#8217;s the secret of life.\u00c2\u00a0 Others.<\/p>\n<p>Loneliness is America&#8217;s great killer.\u00c2\u00a0 It&#8217;s not disease or automobile accidents.\u00c2\u00a0 If it doesn&#8217;t lead to suicide, loneliness causes enough pain to cripple the soul.\u00c2\u00a0 We yearn to be connected, to be a member of the group, but we&#8217;re not taught the steps, this is a mystery.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re in school and we just want to be popular.\u00c2\u00a0 We&#8217;re put down, kept in our place by football players and cheerleaders.\u00c2\u00a0 We hate them, but we just want to be with them.<\/p>\n<p>And when we finally graduate, NOBODY cares what we do.\u00c2\u00a0 And therefore we go online, sign up for match.com, maybe even desperately sign up for a hit and run on craigslist.\u00c2\u00a0 We just want someone to lay down beside us.\u00c2\u00a0 And hopefully talk to us after we&#8217;re done, so we don&#8217;t feel so creepy.<\/p>\n<p>But you won&#8217;t see the foregoing on the front page of the newspaper.\u00c2\u00a0 Nor on television.\u00c2\u00a0 Media focuses on the winners, while the losers, the lonely, stare on, just dying to be included.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the goal, to figure out a way to be included, to gain some traction, to get a significant other and build a life.<\/p>\n<p>But what are you supposed to do in the meantime?<\/p>\n<p>Listen to music.<\/p>\n<p>The music spoke to our alienation, it soothed us.\u00c2\u00a0 We felt the artists understood us, knew our pain.\u00c2\u00a0 If they would only come over for dinner and talk to us, life would be all right.<\/p>\n<p>I realize the youngsters of today go to the club, all the action is happening at the club.\u00c2\u00a0 But what if you&#8217;re not good looking?\u00c2\u00a0 What if you can&#8217;t afford the threads?\u00c2\u00a0 What, if unlike A.J. Soprano, you can&#8217;t cash in an asset to buy everybody champagne?\u00c2\u00a0 Then the club must be a disaster area you avoid.\u00c2\u00a0 But you&#8217;re lonely, so you keep going back, looking for connection where none is available to those who don&#8217;t wear their desirability on the exterior.<\/p>\n<p>Justin Timberlake&#8217;s bringing sexy back.\u00c2\u00a0 For those who never lost it.\u00c2\u00a0 Those who&#8217;ve never had intercourse, those with intimacy issues, they don&#8217;t know how to be sexy, they just want a chance to be sexy, they want to be on the dance floor, but it just doesn&#8217;t feel comfortable.\u00c2\u00a0 The club music is for winners.\u00c2\u00a0 The music on Top Forty is for winners.\u00c2\u00a0 In a country of lonely losers.<\/p>\n<p>And Mariah Carey and Christina Aguilera urge us to look at them, validate their stardom, but what we&#8217;re really looking for is to be validated ourselves.\u00c2\u00a0 We feel so bad, we need to feel good.\u00c2\u00a0 We need music to feel good, that speaks to us, that comes from where we live.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gregory Markel:<\/p>\n<blockquote dir=\"ltr\" style=\"MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px\">\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/thefeeling\">http:\/\/www.myspace.com\/thefeeling<\/a><\/p>\n<p>New band, very 10CC.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Dr. Tony Shore<\/p>\n<blockquote dir=\"ltr\" style=\"MARGIN-RIGHT: 0px\">\n<p>Thank you for writing about 10cc. I too have incredibly strong memories that go along with hearing their songs for the first time and buying their albums. Mostly relating to girls and relationships, but I was young and foolish then. I miss that. I loved most of their output and I am one of those weird people that really enjoyed the quirky solo stuff that Godley and Creme did as well.<br \/>\u00c2\u00a0<br \/>I know you get people recommending new music and artists to you all the time and, if you&#8217;re like me, you&#8217;ve got a stack, or stacks of CD&#8217;s that you barely have time to get to, but based on your tastes, and what you like about 10cc, you have GOT to hear this new UK band called &quot;The Feeling.&quot; They&#8217;re heavily influenced by 10cc, Wings, Brian Wilson and 70&#8217;s pop, but they don&#8217;t just steal or re-do, they have their own style. It&#8217;s pure pop like you rarely if ever hear these days. Right now it&#8217;s an import only. It was due to release here in the States this week but I believe it&#8217;s been pushed back. This doesn&#8217;t surprise me, because if I like it as much as I do, it&#8217;s probably commercial death. Please note, I have a music blog and run a tiny little label and work for a CD packaging company (R.I.P.?) but I am in no way associated with this band. I&#8217;m not a promoter or friend trying to get exposure for them, I&#8217;m just saying, I think you&#8217;d flip over their music. Unfortunately the clips I&#8217;ve heard online don&#8217;t do them justice. The album is brilliant in my *humble* opinion. It&#8217;s on Universal in the UK. They may have full videos up on their website: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefeeling.com\/\">http:\/\/www.thefeeling.com\/<\/a><br \/>\u00c2\u00a0<br \/>Thanks once again for sharing your love of music with the rest of us geeks!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>There&#8217;s a cult of Angelenos who think Gregory Markel missed his date with fame.\u00c2\u00a0 Check his band Altered State out and make your own judgment: <a title=\"Altered State\" href=\"http:\/\/profile.myspace.com\/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&#038;friendid=87560747\" target=\"_blank\">Altered State<\/a><\/p>\n<p>All I know is Gregory is a wild character.\u00c2\u00a0 Making his money in Internet marketing now, but worth spending an evening with to hear the stories of his ups and downs.<\/p>\n<p>As for Dr. Tony Shore&#8230;\u00c2\u00a0 Who knows?\u00c2\u00a0 But the fact that he wasn&#8217;t financially involved, and Mr. Markel&#8217;s pedigree, got me to check this band out.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m stunned.\u00c2\u00a0 They&#8217;re GOOD!<\/p>\n<p>Go to the aforementioned MySpace site, the one Gregory Markel is hyping above.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe the intro is a reference to T&#8217;Pau&#8217;s &quot;Heart and Soul&quot;.\u00c2\u00a0 I&#8217;ve definitely heard this sound before.\u00c2\u00a0 But the groove, I haven&#8217;t heard something like this in EONS!\u00c2\u00a0 A track with feeling, that IMMEDIATELY takes me away from the space I&#8217;ve been inhabiting.<\/p>\n<p>But then come the CHANGES!\u00c2\u00a0 The song takes a left turn at the end of the verse and then explodes into HYPERSPACE!<\/p>\n<p>And then comes back.<\/p>\n<p>Like a fucking 10cc song.<\/p>\n<p>Malcolm Gladwell posits in &quot;Blink&quot; that the expert, he with experience and expertise, can form an INSTANT judgment, he can TELL!<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t need a rock critic, some dude on a Website to tell me the Feeling&#8217;s &quot;Never Be Lonely&quot; is exquisite, extraordinary here in this twenty first century.\u00c2\u00a0 It just sounds, feels, SO RIGHT!<\/p>\n<p>So right you want to hear MORE!<\/p>\n<p><strong>3<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8216;Cause you got my heart in a headlock <br \/>You stopped the blood and made my head soft <br \/>And god knows <br \/>You got me sewn<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Eventually you find someone.<\/p>\n<p>And then you&#8217;re in jeopardy.\u00c2\u00a0 Maybe they&#8217;re no longer attentive.\u00c2\u00a0 Or maybe deep inside you know the differences are just too great.\u00c2\u00a0 But you don&#8217;t want to let go, you don&#8217;t want to be thrown back into the sea.\u00c2\u00a0 That interior monologue is raging.\u00c2\u00a0 You just want to lie down and not get up.<\/p>\n<p>This is the way &quot;Sewn&quot; sounds.<\/p>\n<p>But there&#8217;s a buzzsaw guitar in the middle, the combination of opposing forces in one little pop song pioneered by 10cc.<\/p>\n<p>And then there&#8217;s the half as long but ending with the same raging guitars of &quot;Feel The Benefit&quot; of the album closer, &quot;Same Old Stuff&quot;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The Feeling is already a hit in the U.K.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure the band can make it in the U.S.<br \/>We don&#8217;t have Radio 1.\u00c2\u00a0 We&#8217;ve got Top Forty radio.\u00c2\u00a0 Which is urban, rhythm and blues, mindless beats.\u00c2\u00a0 The criterion isn&#8217;t that something be good, but that it FIT THE FORMAT!<\/p>\n<p>Everything else falls through the cracks.<\/p>\n<p>At least thirty-odd years ago we had FM.\u00c2\u00a0 Today, there&#8217;s no place with critical mass, for this music to be heard.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re under forty, if you came of age after the advent of MTV, you&#8217;ve now got a chance to experience how it used to be.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;d learn about a band from England.\u00c2\u00a0 We&#8217;d buy the album without hearing it first.\u00c2\u00a0 Not needing the validation of airplay or sales.\u00c2\u00a0 And we&#8217;d lie on our beds listening.\u00c2\u00a0 Fantasizing scenarios within which we were socially comfortable, cool.<\/p>\n<p>Listen.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1 People in love get lost and foolishPeople in love get everything wrongPeople in love get scared and stupidPeople in love get everything wrong At least they&#8217;re not lonelyAt least they&#8217;re not lonelyNever be lonely I wish money solved all problems.\u00c2\u00a0 Then the path would be clear.\u00c2\u00a0 Kind of like winning a sporting event.\u00c2\u00a0 Just [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-544","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-the-music"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p96vPs-8M","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/544","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=544"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/544\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}