{"id":23062,"date":"2026-03-26T10:37:24","date_gmt":"2026-03-26T18:37:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/?p=23062"},"modified":"2026-03-26T10:37:24","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T18:37:24","slug":"who-i-am","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/2026\/03\/26\/who-i-am\/","title":{"rendered":"Who I Am"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t need someone to root for in order to enjoy a TV series or movie.<\/p>\n<p>Good is not good enough for me. I want the best, which often doesn&#8217;t even cost more. Not so I can show it off, but so I can USE IT! All those features&#8230;I explore and use them.<\/p>\n<p>I read the manual. Always. When I buy a car, before I set up a piece of electronic gear&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t care how much violence there is, that won&#8217;t prevent me from watching a series or film.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not into entertainment. What they call &#8220;popcorn movies.&#8221; I&#8217;ve never read a comic book in my life. Well, other than &#8220;Archie&#8221; and &#8220;Casper the Friendly Ghost.&#8221; Marvel means nothing to me.<\/p>\n<p>I hate fantasy. If there are ghosts, demons, anything that doesn&#8217;t happen in real life, I&#8217;m out.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m not a big fan of sci-fi either&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I want to go deep. If I like a song, I can literally play it thirty times in a row. Much more than once, I&#8217;ve played one album and one album only for an entire week&#8230;&#8221;Led Zeppelin II.&#8221; Nik Kershaw&#8217;s &#8220;15 Minutes.&#8221; As for singles&#8230; Gnarls Barkley&#8217;s &#8220;Crazy&#8221; and Paula Cole&#8217;s &#8220;14&#8221; and Paul McCartney&#8217;s &#8220;Big Barn Bed&#8221;&#8230; I put the song on endless repeat and revel in the mood.<\/p>\n<p>I hate groupthink. I don&#8217;t want to disagree for the sake of disagreeing, but I don&#8217;t want to hold back my opinion for fear of blowback.<\/p>\n<p>I like a nice house, but it&#8217;s far down the list of what&#8217;s important to me. What&#8217;s in my mind is what counts.<\/p>\n<p>I hate shopping for clothes. Mostly I just go to the Polo outlet store and stock up when I&#8217;m in need.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t take almost anybody&#8217;s opinion as the truth, because people are so uniformed. Unless they&#8217;re at the center of what they&#8217;re talking about, I go online and do research. Yes, my own research, but at trusted sites&#8230; I hate when people send me info from blogs that a quick look at Wikipedia will tell you are biased. It just shows how uninformed they are.<\/p>\n<p>I love the news. I love reading the physical paper because I see stories I don&#8217;t find online. Having said that, I&#8217;m checking the news apps all day long. For breaking stories. NYT, WSJ, LAT, Apple News+, even X&#8230;but only the tweets of those people I follow, the &#8220;For you&#8221; feed is trash.<\/p>\n<p>If I find something great I want to tell everybody about it.<\/p>\n<p>I love to argue a point. Wrestle with the issues. Get into the minutiae and tease out the truth. Sure, a song may be good, but if it had this or that it would be SPECTACULAR!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m susceptible to bullies, but I&#8217;ve learned over time that my reaction, my cowering, is unfounded. The people who respond negatively first?\/ They&#8217;re the most invested in putting you down.<\/p>\n<p>I hate when someone reads a missive of mine and then in a derogatory way says I missed this or that, when if they just read what I wrote they&#8217;d see I mentioned it!<\/p>\n<p>Also, I hate when people criticize me for not mentioning a minor player when writing about a major one&#8230; What I do is not comprehensive, go to the encyclopedia for that&#8230;or maybe today, Wikipedia.<\/p>\n<p>I hate nitpickers.<\/p>\n<p>I believe intellect trumps money, you just have to know how to use it.<\/p>\n<p>I hate sour grapes. From unsuccessful people and people who tell me how hard they&#8217;re working. Too many don&#8217;t know what sacrifice truly is.<\/p>\n<p>If I&#8217;m your friend you can count on me, and I hope I can count on you.<\/p>\n<p>When I find someone is on the same page as me, I buzz on the inside.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m an alienated f*ck. I&#8217;m the one who refuses to call the teacher &#8220;professor,&#8221; I&#8217;m the one who puts their feet on the desk, I&#8217;m not saying there should be no rules, but you&#8217;ve got to earn my respect, your title is not enough.<\/p>\n<p>When I was twenty one I knew everything, now I realize how much I don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a deformity, get plastic surgery&#8230;but if you&#8217;re doing it to stay young, I don&#8217;t get it. Charlotte Rampling has had nothing done and she&#8217;s more beautiful than the nipped and tucked.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, you don&#8217;t eat and you&#8217;re stick thin&#8230; You might be impressing other women, but I&#8217;m turned off and most men are too. Eat something. And just wait until osteoporosis hits.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody&#8217;s got a story&#8230;their life, and I want to hear it.<\/p>\n<p>I accept almost nothing at face value.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m susceptible to people judging me, but I do what I want anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Bugs me that college is now seen as a glorified trade school. Then again, the real learning in college happens outside class, hanging with people in the dorm.<\/p>\n<p>I love living in LA. because the only person who ever asked me my SAT scores was a Boston Brahmin.<\/p>\n<p>My two favorite flavors of ice cream are Phish Food and Chunky Monkey.<\/p>\n<p>I refuse to save money on that which is cheap to begin with. I don&#8217;t want Chips Ahoy, I want Entenmann&#8217;s, or even better.<\/p>\n<p>There are exceptions to all of the above.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t need someone to root for in order to enjoy a TV series or movie. Good is not good enough for me. 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