{"id":23029,"date":"2026-03-10T17:23:59","date_gmt":"2026-03-11T01:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/?p=23029"},"modified":"2026-03-10T17:25:30","modified_gmt":"2026-03-11T01:25:30","slug":"mailbag-87","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/2026\/03\/10\/mailbag-87\/","title":{"rendered":"Mailbag"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From: Joel Selvin<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Country Joe McDonald<\/p>\n<p>Date: March 10, 2026 at 10:37:49?AM MDT<\/p>\n<p>As Bill Graham once introduced them at Fillmore East, Country Joe and the Fish &#8212; taking Berkeley with them wherever they go.<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Marc Sedaka<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Neil Sedaka\/Dad<\/p>\n<p>Date: March 4, 2026 at 11:35:30?PM MST<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t read the comments from the both of you and not weigh in. Those London years from \u201972-\u201974 were arguably the happiest of my father\u2019s life and undoubtedly his most creative. Solitaire and The Tra La Days Are Over remain the Sedaka family&#8217;s favorite albums, and, till the day he died, Neil would refer to songs like \u201cTrying to Say Goodbye\u201d, \u201cAnywhere You\u2019re Gonna Be\u201d and \u201cFor Peace and Love\u201d as his hidden treasures. He revered you both and was forever grateful for your guidance and your contributions.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Elton &#8211; Thank you for saying that Neil should be in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. It truly is an injustice that he\u2019s not and I\u2019m only sorry that he didn\u2019t live long enough to see it happen. I must also reference something from Bob\u2019s wonderful retrospective that bears clarification. Neil never wanted to leave Rocket Records, but rather allowed himself to be coerced by people close to him who thought they knew better. Yes, he had regrets. But only because he didn\u2019t listen to his heart and do what he knew was right. I don\u2019t know if he ever told you that, but he told me a lot. He loved you so much.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you both for changing his world.<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Alex Cooper<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: The Wings Book<\/p>\n<p>Date: February 5, 2026 at 7:24:49?AM MST<\/p>\n<p>My lawyer in NY worked for Yoko. He said he only really understood how famous the Beatles were when he walked into a room with the President of the United States and Paul McCartney in it. The Secret Service agents were looking worried. He saw why. Nobody was talking to The President. They all wanted to talk to Paul.<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Michael Moniz<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Brett Guerwitz, Epitaph Records Founder Speaks About Spotify<\/p>\n<p>Bob, I\u2019m unsure if you\u2019re familiar with who Brett Gurewitz is founder of Epitaph records and legendary Los Angeles punk band Bad Religion. Listening to him on this recent podcast episode of the podcast Hardlore, I think you might want to listen and even propagate it to your readers because of his take on Spotify. It\u2019s pretty much right in line with you have been saying, and to hear it these days from a mid-level musician and indie label owner is really hard to find these days. It\u2019s a long episode, it covers the history of the band and the label, but you just have to listen at about the two hour mark for about 10 to 12 minutes where he discusses it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Brett Gurewitz: Bad Religion, Founding Epitaph Records, Early Punk\/Hardcore &amp; The Shift to Spotify&#8221;: https:\/\/overcast.fm\/+AA5US0ZH1Tg<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: John Van Nest<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Re-Paul Anka<\/p>\n<p>Date: March 9, 2026 at 6:38:06?PM MDT<\/p>\n<p>Hi Bob,<\/p>\n<p>I recorded vocals for a project of Paul Anka\u2019s somewhere around the late 80\u2019s. \u00a0During the sessions, which ran a few days, we talked about a lot of things; family, life, his career, etc. \u00a0I found him to be wonderfully genuine and a truly engaging person.<\/p>\n<p>On the last day, as he was leaving, I felt his hand slide into my pocket, and when I reached in, I pulled out a $100 bill he had given me. \u00a0I explained that tipping wasn\u2019t really customary nor necessary for a recording engineer. \u00a0He replied, \u201cBuy something nice for that little daughter of yours.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was always struck by that act of kindness and appreciation. \u00a0I\u2019ll forever be a fan of the man and his art.<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Dave Arbiter<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Mac McAnally At The Vilar<\/p>\n<p>Date: February 21, 2026 at 5:27:22?AM MST<\/p>\n<p>Loved this one!!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been living in one of those Jimmy Buffett 55 (and better) communities for 1-1\/2 years now, in Daytona Beach. Mac plays our community once a year, and it&#8217;s impossible to get a golf cart spot on those evenings!<\/p>\n<p>I appreciate you comparing the Parrotheads to the Deadheads. It&#8217;s not far off, except by scale. \u00a0Plenty of both here.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Fins Up,<\/p>\n<p>Dave Arbiter<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Latitude Margaritaville<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Daytona Beach, FL<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Kevin Cronin<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Man On The Run<\/p>\n<p>Date: March 2, 2026 at 12:40:26?PM MST<\/p>\n<p>Hey Bob,<\/p>\n<p>I came across Man on the Run the other night, and found it to be my favorite post-Beatles doc. I can\u2019t put my finger on why \u2026 and I don\u2019t really care. It simply worked for me.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>On a strictly musical level, it\u2019s hard to beat the in-studio piece with Paul and Rick Ruben. And the three-part special on the drama leading up to the rooftop performance was great in its own way. But again, for my money, Man on the Run told the story best. \u2026 kc<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Jim Willcox<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Calibration<\/p>\n<p>Date: February 12, 2026 at 7:22:11?AM MST<\/p>\n<p>Hi, Bob, thanks for the write-up\u00a0on TV calibration. I can&#8217;t tell you how many times I go to someone&#8217;s house and they brag about their new, great TV, and all I see is that\u00a0they have the brightness cranked too high, the image is over-sharpened, they have engaged a high level of motion smoothing, and the colors are boosted to where they look unnatural. We know many people never take their TVs out of the default settings, or won&#8217;t pay for a true ISF calibration, so we started offering members the actual settings we use in our labs to get TVs as close as possible to our reference models. We also point out that consumers don&#8217;t have to be afraid to play around with the individual settings; you can always easily return to the TV&#8217;s default settings in the menu.<\/p>\n<p>Glad this made a difference in the LG OLED TV you bought, a great choice.<\/p>\n<p>The offer\u00a0for a lab visit still stands when you&#8217;re on the East Coast.<\/p>\n<p>Best regards,<\/p>\n<p>Jim<\/p>\n<p>James K. Willcox<\/p>\n<p>Senior Electronics Editor<\/p>\n<p>Consumer Reports\/Consumer Reports Online<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Steven Marmalstein<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: The Billy Preston Movie<\/p>\n<p>Date: February 24, 2026 at 8:09:06?PM MST<\/p>\n<p>Hi Bob,<\/p>\n<p>In 1997, I was a segment producer on a TV special for ABC called &#8220;The Three Stooges Greatest Hits.&#8221; It was a clip\/variety show hosted by Martin Short and was seen by probably 26 people. We hired Little Richard to appear on the show and sing the accidental hit from 1984 called &#8220;The Curly Shuffle&#8221; by Jump in the Saddle.<\/p>\n<p>After we handed Richard his 25 G&#8217;s in a brown paper bag,\u00a0 we asked him if he wanted to check out the piano, the tuning and whatnot. He said, &#8220;I&#8217;m good, I have Billy coming in to play my parts for me. I&#8217;ll just sing it after.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ten minutes later, Billy Preston walks into the recording studio and sits at the piano. He tells the band to start and they play. \u00a0He jumps in and plays his part perfectly. Does one more take, gets up and says hello to Richard. They hug and Richard then reaches into his bag, hands him some cash and Billy leaves. He&#8217;s there for maybe ten minutes.<\/p>\n<p>A few minutes later Richard says &#8220;Oh no! Billy was supposed to sing back up! I&#8217;ll do it but I need some help. Can any of you boys carry a tune?&#8221; So me and another producer look at each other and say &#8220;yeah, sure&#8221; and volunteer for the gig. We grab a lyric sheet, walk into the studio and sing back-up WITH Little Richard! Okay so it wasn&#8217;t Tutti Frutty, but wow!<\/p>\n<p>Only in LA.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the video, which we shot a few days later at the Alex Theater in Glendale.<\/p>\n<p>You can hear us on the &#8220;Hey Moe&#8217;s&#8221;\u00a0in the bg.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Curly Shuffle&#8221; by Little Richard:<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/_uR92mdUILQ?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: David Macias<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Great seeing you!<\/p>\n<p>Date: February 2, 2026 at 3:51:47?PM PST<\/p>\n<p>Hi Bob-<\/p>\n<p>It was wonderful (as always) to see you at the Americana event the\u00a0other night, and I enjoyed\u00a0the conversation\u00a0as well. I did want to clarify my thoughts about &#8220;the music&#8221; being regressive. It sounds like I am being critical of the music that is being made today, and that is not what I meant to\u00a0say.<\/p>\n<p>What I mean to say is that our algorithmically driven ecosystem tends to reward music that is stylistically similar to whatever the listener has been listening to, so how do new stylistic breakthroughs occur? If you only listen to Mozart, what chance will you ever have to hear Stravinsky, much less Schoenberg?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m interested in, and investing time and energy into thinking about how to build a world around music that would not be rewarded by the algorithm. If all we ever do is think about art through the framework of how algorithms will reward it, then our creative landscape becomes a self-referential closed loop. That feels creatively barren, and listeners will also tire from experiencing the same sonic textures and emotional cues, and will begin to tune out. We already see songs that reach the top of the radio charts and stream only 5m times on DSPs. It&#8217;s because we&#8217;re stuffed to the gills with the same formulaic tropes and that music fails to move anyone. I predict we&#8217;re going to see more and more of this dynamic at play.<\/p>\n<p>I also feel strongly that this is not the fault of the DSPs. They don&#8217;t owe a platform to anyone. They use algorithms to do the same thing that\u00a0McDonald&#8217;s and Starbucks do. There is value in providing predictability to a consumer. People eat Big Macs because they&#8217;re good, but also you know what a Big Mac is and you&#8217;re not going to be surprised. Will you remember that meal years from now, unlike that Michelin starred restaurant you ate at on your vacation in Paris? No, but that doesn&#8217;t make McDonald&#8217;s bad people for offering you what they are offering you. DSPs get too much blame for things, and I don&#8217;t want to make\u00a0them the\u00a0bad\u00a0guys in this dynamic.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s up to the music business to learn how to create worlds outside of algorithms, and the sooner that we learn to do this and team together to build communities collaboratively, then we&#8217;re going to support a more creatively vibrant music ecosystem. When you asked me what I was excited about, I&#8217;m excited about thinking about and solving this problem.<\/p>\n<p>Best-<\/p>\n<p>David<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Kenny Jacob<\/p>\n<p>Subject: On bipolar and \u201ctriggers\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Date: January 27, 2026 at 2:47:36?AM PST<\/p>\n<p>Bob \u2014<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve lived with Bipolar 1 for over 50 years. One nuance worth clarifying in your excellent piece is the word \u201ctrigger.\u201d It doesn\u2019t mean cause. Bipolar is genetic; life circumstances are what activate it.<\/p>\n<p>In my case, the lifestyle at Sound City studios when I worked there as a teenager \u2014 nights, chronic sleep deprivation, drugs, total disengagement from normal rhythm \u2014 flipped the switch. In my family, my father and his brother were triggered by war trauma. Different lives, same illness.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why origin stories matter. When people believe an external event created the illness, it feeds denial and delays treatment. Mania convinces you nothing is wrong \u2014 that everyone else is overreacting \u2014 which you describe very accurately.<\/p>\n<p>Untreated mania doesn\u2019t just exaggerate personality; it can produce behavior unrecognizable to the stable self. I\u2019ve done things I deeply regret, mostly to myself. When that happens publicly, at celebrity scale, the consequences don\u2019t reset with an apology. Trust takes years to rebuild.<\/p>\n<p>Your writing here is unusually precise for someone who isn\u2019t bipolar. I only wanted to underline that understanding how the illness comes to life is key to preventing it from repeating.<\/p>\n<p>Kenny Jacob<\/p>\n<p>Biarritz, France<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Martin Theander<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Kanye&#8217;s Ad<\/p>\n<p>Date: January 27, 2026 at 2:19:54?AM PST<\/p>\n<p>Very spot on, Bob.<\/p>\n<p>Once the medication works, you start thinking: \u201dI\u2019m fine really, obviously I don\u2019t need these pills\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Then it takes a while for those around you to understand that something\u2019s off, and when they do it\u2019s already too late.<\/p>\n<p>So you crash, and if you\u2019re lucky you get help, you don\u2019t end it, with support you manage to climb back up.<\/p>\n<p>But if you\u2019re the boss, most times you won\u2019t trust anyone to help you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s very lonely at the top.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Then it takes a good while before the medication is in tune again, and by that time\u2026again you think you don\u2019t need it.<\/p>\n<p>So it\u2019s an endless loop that\u2019s so hard to break out of, it can go on forever, each crash bringing you closer to the actual edge.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Anyone who manages to eventually accept and handle it, they\u2019re climbing Mount Everest.<\/p>\n<p>We all have our stuff to deal with, but most of us don\u2019t climb Mount Everest.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps that\u2019s what he\u2019s done now.<\/p>\n<p>Like you, I wish him good luck.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019ll need it, apart from the pills and the help and love from those around him.<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Marty Bender<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Kanye&#8217;s Ad<\/p>\n<p>Date: January 26, 2026 at 8:25:46?PM PST<\/p>\n<p>My brother suddenly developed bipolar disorder in his fifties.<\/p>\n<p>It took a lot of trial and error, but he finally got on the right meds.<\/p>\n<p>However&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>In his manic phase, he felt as though he no longer needed the medication.<\/p>\n<p>Stopping the medication then plunged him right into deep depression.<\/p>\n<p>And down there, he convinced himself that he could not afford his prescription.<\/p>\n<p>Even though he wanted to live&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s only so much mental push and pull a human can take.<\/p>\n<p>R.I.P. (with an emphasis on the peace)<\/p>\n<p>Marty Bender<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Jan Jankingston<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Re: Kanye&#8217;s Ad<\/p>\n<p>Date: January 27, 2026 at 1:59:48?AM PST<\/p>\n<p>Hi Bob,<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know about Kanye.\u00a0 But my dad had bipolar disorder.\u00a0 You are correct.\u00a0 When they are manic, they think they can do anything, and they don\u2019t want to stop that. And they do some amazing things when manic.\u00a0 He died by suicide when I was 13. He\u2019d been suicidal for 10 years of my 13.\u00a0 I used to sit by his bedside and keep him awake after he took pills and drank, while my mom called around to find my brother to take him to the hospital.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know if there weren\u2019t ambulances or if the shame kept her from calling the ambulances. It was a long time ago.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think I\u2019d trust my Dad again. Even if he took out an ad. \u00a0I\u2019m sorry he was so sad.\u00a0 You are right though.\u00a0 There are consequences to those around the person.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re right. It\u2019s an illness and hard to say if the person can keep a hold on it. It\u2019s tough.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll check out Kanye\u2019s ad.\u00a0<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>J<\/p>\n<p>____________________________________<\/p>\n<p>From: Ben Dalby<\/p>\n<p>Subject: Long term thanks<\/p>\n<p>Date: January 23, 2026 at 9:00:30?AM PST<\/p>\n<p>Dear Mr Lefsetz,<\/p>\n<p>Long term reader, I\u2019ve gotten an awful lot from your writing over the years.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>My favourite thing ever \u2013 standing on a rain swept platform at 6am in UK, waiting for a jammed commuter train to take me into central London. And opening your letter to read about some great sandwich you\u2019d eaten in sunny California. It was a better glimpse into a better world .<\/p>\n<p>Take care, sending you positive thoughts from cold and wet UK, goodness knows you get enough stick.<\/p>\n<p>Ben<\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From: Joel Selvin Subject: Re: Country Joe McDonald Date: March 10, 2026 at 10:37:49?AM MDT As Bill Graham once introduced them at Fillmore East, Country Joe and the Fish &#8212; taking Berkeley with them wherever they go. ____________________________________ From: Marc Sedaka Subject: Re: Neil Sedaka\/Dad Date: March 4, 2026 at 11:35:30?PM MST I couldn\u2019t read [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1,2,19,8,12,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23029","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-music-business","category-podcasts","category-technology","category-television","category-the-music"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p96vPs-5Zr","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23029","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23029"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23029\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23031,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23029\/revisions\/23031"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23029"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23029"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23029"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}