{"id":22996,"date":"2026-03-02T16:50:22","date_gmt":"2026-03-03T00:50:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/?p=22996"},"modified":"2026-03-02T16:50:22","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T00:50:22","slug":"re-neil-sedaka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lefsetz.com\/wordpress\/2026\/03\/02\/re-neil-sedaka\/","title":{"rendered":"Re-Neil Sedaka"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No R&amp;R HOF for him as well as Connie Francis, Tommy James, and many deserving other artists. All wrong!<\/p>\n<p>Ron Alexenburg<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Hi Bob. We all have our pet artist (and pet peeve) who hasn\u2019t made it into the RRHOF and number one on my list is Neil Sedaka. How is Percy Sledge in the Hall and Sedaka isn\u2019t? Not that it really matters who\u2019s in and who\u2019s left out. My very first album, before The Beatles onslaught, was a Neil Sedaka album. Recently I\u2019ve been enjoying his Tik Tok videos. What a great writer. RIP Neil.<\/p>\n<p>Regards,<\/p>\n<p>Steven Ehrlick<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Neil Sedaka is gone, and the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame should be ashamed of themselves for deliberately excluding him all these years. But they won\u2019t feel anything, because they are a sham of an organization.<\/p>\n<p>Neil Sedaka and Howard Greenfield were famously snubbed in 2010 when the RRHOF inducted all the great songwriters of their era. Burt Bacharach and Hal David were also snubbed that year, yet Dionne Warwick gets inducted years later &#8211; make that make sense! \u00a0Just like how they induct Randy Rhoads before Ozzy\u2019s solo career (I could go on\u2026)<\/p>\n<p>Neil should have been inducted both as a songwriter AND performer. Carole King is in twice this same way, and as a performer she\u2019s basically a one-album-wonder. But that album turned 50 in 2021 and somebody paid somebody to time that induction for marketing purposes\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Neil was one of the first true singer-songwriters, but he wasn\u2019t cool. He didn\u2019t wear a cool hat like Dion. He didn\u2019t play guitar. He wrote his own hits AND those for Connie Francis, who also should be in. Lots of acts from his era are in the hall and never wrote one song, and had less hits!<\/p>\n<p>I hope he gets his induction someday, but it will be too little too late. Just like Jimmy Buffett and so many other missteps the RRHOF has made over the years.<\/p>\n<p>God bless you Neil Sedaka, thank you for the music.<\/p>\n<p>Vincent Innocente<br \/>\nMusician &#8211; Staten Island, NY<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Hi Bob,<br \/>\nLike you, I\u2019m terribly saddened by Neil\u2019s passing. I thought I\u2019d share my experience with Neil Sedaka\u2026.<br \/>\n\u201cLaughter in the rain\u201d was starting to climb the charts in the US; continuing a comeback that had started in the UK.<br \/>\nNeil was about to do \u201cThe Midnight Special\u201d and the guitar player who played on the record wasn\u2019t available. I got a call from Robert Appere (Neil\u2019s Producer) to fill in. I was a year and a half out of Brooklyn and that call changed my life!<br \/>\nI spent the next 2 years, up until Neil\u2019s departure from Rocket Records, as a member of Neil\u2019s band. Sedaka was Back!<br \/>\nRIP Neil<br \/>\nRichie Zito<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>I obviously always respected the songs, but as you say &#8211; they were before my time.<\/p>\n<p>But when he started posting his playing and singing on TikTok (up until this week!) &#8211; I became a fan. Timeless songs never go out of style.<\/p>\n<p>Adam Lewis<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>His greatest little-known composition was the haunting, heart-rending \u201cSolitaire.\u201d His rendition was terrific, as was Karen Carpenter\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p>Jim Rowbotham<\/p>\n<p>Manhattan<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>As I\u2019m sure many have said, writing two UK no 1\u2019s in Stupid Cupid and Amarillo can\u2019t be too bad!<\/p>\n<p>All the best<\/p>\n<p>JC Reid<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>40 years ago, one of my first gigs was a short tour with Neil Sedaka.\u00a0 He was past his 70\u2019s resurgence and playing small performing arts centres. He had the best Nashville sideman in tow and treated us really well &#8211; we flew to all gigs, everyone had their own rooms in nice hotels.\u00a0 I doubt he made any money. But I don\u2019t think that was the purpose &#8211; he just wanted to get out there and hear the applause.\u00a0 Tons of hits and standing ovations.\u00a0 And some hilarious stories behind the scenes.\u00a0 RIP to one of the great pop songwriters.<\/p>\n<p>Iain Taylor<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for the remembrance of Neil.<\/p>\n<p>Twenty years back, I was incredibly lucky and got to work with him. When I was at Razor &amp; TIe, I helped compile a new greatest hits compilation. I met with Neil at his Upper East side apartment and got to listen to a pile of acetates of unreleased recordings. We dug out an incredible demo versions of &#8220;Where The Boys Are&#8221;, as well as &#8220;It Hurts to Be in Love&#8221;. Neil wrote the latter but was blocked from releasing by his label at the time, RCA Records, because it wasn&#8217;t recorded at their studio. Gene Pitney took the same song(with the original backing track from Neil\u2019s version) and it went number one.<\/p>\n<p>Later that same year I asked Neil to do a run of shows at Joe&#8217;s Pub, his first in a NYC club in decades. I invited Chris and Adam from Fountains of Wayne to sing Neil&#8217;s &#8220;Calendar Girl&#8221; with him on stage since I knew the FOW guys had covered it previously. \u00a0We filmed the performance and Stereogum even posted about it. My parents came to the show, the first and only time they knew who an artist I worked was. My folks were NY Jews of a similar age; Neil couldn\u2019t have been nicer, and my parents talked about meeting him for years.<\/p>\n<p>RIP Neil Sedaka. A true mensch.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Neil Sedaka w\/Fountains of Wayne &#8211; Calendar Girl &#8211; Joe&#8217;s Pub &#8211; May 2007&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/vtdbw4vCnDo?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Michael Krumper<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Thank you so very much for your beautiful remembrance of Neil Sedaka. One of his earliest tunes to get on the radio was, \u201cI Go Ape\u201d, and it rocked my little seventh grade world. \u00a0 I was so moved by your statement that his death \u201cwas kind of personal\u201d. \u00a0 My wife and I felt exactly that way on a New Year\u2019s Eve years ago when we heard of the death of Rick Nelson.<\/p>\n<p>In one his songs, singer-songwriter Al Stewart states, \u201c Don\u2019t some people just affect you that way?\u201d. \u00a0 Yes, they do, and Neil Sedaka was one of them.<\/p>\n<p>Dennis Brent<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>A beautiful sentiment. \u00a0Sedaka was a wonderful writer; however. His production quality was almost on par with Brian Wilson. \u00a0Layered harmonies, chord and temp changes. \u00a0A great writer. \u00a0I will miss the FB concerts from his living room that started during the pandemic and continued almost until his final breath.<\/p>\n<p>Steve Mednick<br \/>\nNew Haven, CT<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>He was a bit before my time, so initially I dismissed him. But I ended up discovering and really liking the ballads. Laughter in the Rain, the ballad version of Breaking up is hard to do, and especially the Hungry Years. Which grows in meaning as I look back and reflect. Yes, a nice man. RIP.<\/p>\n<p>Bob Morelli<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>For me (born in \u201875) I was familiar with Neil Sedaka due to my time in major market Radio at an Oldies format station in Portland, OR to growing up in the music industry by way of my Father\u2019s success. However, it was in August 2021 while visiting LA, my wife &amp; I made a usual lunch stop at Mel\u2019s Diner on Sunset. Mimosas and their Club Sandwich.<\/p>\n<p>I glanced over and saw a familiar face, and then I realized it was Neil Sedaka. Of course, he\u2019s a regular at Mel\u2019s. I said to my wife I\u2019ve got to say \u201cHello\u201d and let him know I\u2019ve enjoyed his contributions to music. Well, he invited me to sit across in his booth. We had a pleasant interchange. Upon leaving I said to the hostess, \u201cI want to pick up Mr. Sedaka&#8217;s lunch today.\u201d Tuna salad and a glass of Chardonnay. I thought, \u201cWow, I just treated Neil Sedaka to lunch.\u201d As we departed the parking lot I looked to my right to see him sitting in the booth where I left him, with a glass of Chardonnay, and taking a bite of tuna salad. It\u2019s a good memory.<\/p>\n<p>Alex Hart<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>I just entered high school when &#8216;Laughter in the Rain&#8217; came out, with &#8216;Love Will Keep Us Together&#8217; the following summer.<\/p>\n<p>The Music\u00a0was, and still is, Everything.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Even me, with zippo music education, but with parents who taught me the fundamentals of music appreciation, saw this guy was a tremendous talent.\u00a0 This admiration had to be concealed from my peers, as only the long-hair and R&amp;B stuff was to be applauded among the general population.\u00a0 Man, they took such pleasure in making fun of that Fedora.\u00a0 However, all the musicians I knew, across all genres, admired and respected him.\u00a0 Yes, the Brill Building crew was passe&#8217;, but he managed to endure.<\/p>\n<p>In later years, I listened to interviews with him, and his talent and decency shone through.<\/p>\n<p>Regards,<\/p>\n<p>Edward Bryan<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Neil Sedaka popped up on my fyp on TikTok one day and I was like, wow he\u2019s still singing at his piano and it\u2019s still pure joy to listen. So of course I clicked \u201cfollow.\u201d \u00a0He\u2019d have his grandson sing along sometimes and the two of them were so fun to watch\/hear. Neil was always sweet and engaging and kind to his audience, and like you said, seemed so real. I was a huge fan as a kid, belting it out when his songs came on the radio. I was so sad to hear he\u2019d passed.<\/p>\n<p>Ellie Shapiro<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Very good Bob. \u00a0I felt queasy too. \u00a0I think because he was SO alive, losing him so quickly without fanfare, was jarring and seemed wrong. I got a recent picture with him at Dan Tanas and will remember him with love and in his element\u2026 he loved us. \u00a0I felt it.<\/p>\n<p>Steven McClintock<br \/>\n37 Records<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately I had a long career with many artists as a Lighting Director then Production Manager. I never had the opportunity to work with Neil but I did see him perform at the Grand Palace in Branson Missouri around 1995. At the time I was employed by Glen Campbell at his venue not far from where Neil played. I had a night off so I went to see Neil. I had no idea of how engaging he would be. I knew he was an outstanding singer, musician and song writer. To this day I remember his show. I have worked on over 3,000 live performances worldwide with a number of legendary Grammy winning artist. In early retirement I reflect on 15 or 20 performances that I remember like it was yesterday. Neil Sedaka\u2019s performance was one of them. He had that magic that made you feel like you were sitting on his piano bench while he played a song for you while explaining how he felt while writing it.<\/p>\n<p>Only a few artist can do that. I\u2019m glad I went to see him. I witnessed Neil Sedaka take the audience with him. Many artists can duplicate that. But there is a fine line in a performance where the sincerity cuts through and you become a part of the artist in front of you. Like you have been friends for years.<\/p>\n<p>Rest in Peace Neil, thank you for sharing your soul with me that night at the Grand Palace.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks Bob,<\/p>\n<p>Tony TL Leverett<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Loved your recent interview with him. He reminded me a bit of Glen Campbell in that he was kind of in awe of his talent and (huge) success, but in a way that just made you smile.<\/p>\n<p>Very few pop songs of that era top &#8220;Where The Boys Are;&#8221; the chord progressions are epic. And the way he refashioned &#8220;Breaking Up is Hard to Do&#8221; as a late-night croon in the 70s just underlined what a great tune it is. He was definitely one of a kind.<\/p>\n<p>David Vawter<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Thak you Bob. Staring at 80, with memories of the Catskills and of Neil, that was beautiful.<\/p>\n<p>arnold brower<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Great testimony Bob. I\u2019m sure you know this but he was something of a classical prodigy at an early age and attended Juilliard. Saw him in Vegas in the 90\u2019s at the Orleans and he still sounded great! Really knew how to relate to a crowd. He will be missed. Thanks for remembering him.<\/p>\n<p>Keith Bishop<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>My father was an eclectic music fan, from Tomita, to Elvis, to Johnny Cash, to Perry Como, to the Carpenters, to Glenn Campbell, to Dire Straights and Pink Floyd. He had a couple of Neil Sedaka albums and so as result I heard many of Neil\u2019s song as I was growing up. \u2018Laughter in the Rain\u2019 was a personal favourite, listening to that on a turn table, lyrics painted the entire picture of a rainy day date getting caught on a country road as the heavens open, all in under 3 minutes. You could hear his smile in his voice. \u00a0 Rest In Peace Dad and Neil.<\/p>\n<p>Dan Waite<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Also, regarding Neil, I want to say his retake on, &#8220;Breaking Up Is Hard To Do&#8221; is GREAT. I was a young radio DJ when he made his comeback. I made the transition to FM by the early 70s. But, there was so much music to be had and heard, as you&#8217;ve documented so many times. But RADIO. It was staffed mainly by men. Many of the guys in radio had no clue or reference to what radio had brought or could bring to the masses, it was just a job to\u00a0them. They looked at the charts and what other stations added that week as they chose their new single playlist adds,\u00a0week to week as just a function of their P.D.\/M.D.position. I was a frustrated musician who gave up the garage band I was a part of as their\u00a0drummer to instead work full time as a disc jockey doing\u00a0the overnight show (12am-6am) to instead\u00a0bring recorded\u00a0music to the local audience\u00a0 I was passionate about what it was that I heard across the FM dial in the Tampa Bay area of Florida. I was into so many artists of all genres. And I was a lunatic fan of 10cc by 1975. I heard &#8220;Rubber Bullets&#8221; on WFSO-AM out of Pinellas Park FL along with Iron Butterfly&#8217;s\u00a0&#8220;Scorching Beauty&#8221; and Scorpions, &#8220;Fly To The Rainbow&#8221; (when the group was in their\u00a0teens) and so much more until they&#8217;d\u00a0sign-off at sunset. Bottom line, a lot of radio guys didn&#8217;t know sh*t about music because they never picked up an instrument. And what we have today are\u00a0pretenders\u00a0running the radio business without the, &#8220;art meets commerce&#8221; ingredient. They don&#8217;t hire guys and gals that truly know music or are inspired by music to know what the hell they are doing. They just want &#8220;content providers&#8221; to ring the cash register and stack some dollars, because they lack the knowledge. Good luck with that. American radio was once the standard barrer that led to many countries across the globe to design their\u00a0radio operations\u00a0after us. Can you say, &#8220;93 KHJ!&#8221; or &#8220;WNEW, Where Rock Lives&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Regards,<\/p>\n<p>Guy &#8220;G. Michael&#8221; Keating<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Sad to see Neil Sedaka pass. I remember seeing him around town in Monticello on a few occasions as his mother lived near me and even attempted to teach his daughter Dara to ski at Holiday Mountain and if I recall arriving in a Rolls Royce. My mother was from the same area in Brooklyn and Barbra Streisand lived in the same building, Neil Diamond down the street and Neil Sedaka nearby. Carole King was a bit farther away. What an era.<\/p>\n<p>These are the Gold record frames my father made from today\u2019s NY Times.<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2026\/02\/27\/arts\/music\/neil-sedaka-dead.html<\/p>\n<p>Barry Levinson<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Listening to Neil on your podcast was the first thing I thought of when I heard that he died.\u00a0 It was such a great interview.\u00a0 My second thought was that you would likely take it kinda hard.\u00a0 Again, because it was such a great interview and because you seemed to really connect with him.\u00a0 But also because it is yet another reminder that our time is limited and that no one here gets out alive.\u00a0 Not that we need to be reminded, mind you.\u00a0 The older you get the more you feel it in your bones and in every ache and creak.\u00a0 It&#8217;s sad, but in Neil&#8217;s case he did leave us with his music which we can listen to and enjoy as we think of a bygone time when we were young.<\/p>\n<p>David Kuswanto<\/p>\n<p>Toronto CANADA<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>I loved Neil Sedaka from the first song. And never stopped. Saw him live twice, years apart and both shows were 110%. He loved to sing.<\/p>\n<p>He made an album in 1975 that never got big but had a loyal fan following. Worth a listen. \u201cThe Hungry Years\u201d. The title song says it all &#8211; about him and his career and what he really loves.<\/p>\n<p>John Parikhal<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Well said, Bob. The podcast you did with him was wonderful. What sticks with me is that during the Pandemic, Neil did these impromptu shows on Facebook. So casual, just him and his piano for maybe 20 minutes. He was so upbeat and sunny and talked as if it was a private little show in his living room. He made you feel confident we would get through it. He had nothing to prove. He was just a really nice guy calming a lot of people with his gift of music.<\/p>\n<p>Regards,<\/p>\n<p>Karl Woitach<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Bob, I was a teenager during the early Neil Sedaka hits and bought quite a few of his 45&#8217;s. Growing up in Canada, we were gyped out of the 45 picture sleeves that U.S. teens bought. We simply had generic RCA Victor sleeves.<\/p>\n<p>Decades later in the late 1980s, I spent several hours interviewing him at his New York pad while his wife Leba and daughter were\u00a0 shopping. Neil had a sore throat that day, but every time I asked him if he wanted to stop, he said he wanted to go on, so I have well over an hour of his memories.<\/p>\n<p>One important thing, although Neil wrote exceptionally catchy melodies, his lyrics (as least his main hits) were written by first, his teen neighbor Howie Greenfield and later on Phil Cody.<\/p>\n<p>Doug Thompson<\/p>\n<p>Toronto<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>My dad, Sammy, had two cousins, one was Eydie Gormezano who lived nearby, the other were the Sedaka&#8217;s from Brooklyn. All were Sephardic (Spanish) Jews from Turkey, as was Louie Nigro (who&#8217;s daughter I had a crush on when we were teens) Sam&#8217;s pal.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike the rest of them, who were short, dark and swarthy, I was the big blonde lifeguard who fronted a band, and was a lifeguard at the Bronx&#8217;s version of Malibu &#8211; Orchard Beach on the LI sound.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t know any of Sammy&#8217;s relatives as I went to school in Boston for 5 years &#8211; but I did learn Spanish, just in case.<\/p>\n<p>As I recall, Neil was always a big draw at Palisades Park during the summer, and I even saw him once there. My childhood friend was Ilene Goldner, who&#8217;s dad Sam and Uncle George started Roulette, Gee and others until they ran out of money and gave it up to Morris, who I&#8217;d meet years later when I was VP Finance at Boardwalk.<\/p>\n<p>Six degrees.<\/p>\n<p>Rick Pardo<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Mid-80\u2019s I end up at a party in his NYC apartment with a friend who knew him well. He greeted me as if he knew me forever.<\/p>\n<p>Neil played the piano and sung a few of his amazing hits -and never stopped smiling.<\/p>\n<p>I was awestruck.<\/p>\n<p>He was Mensch Personified.<\/p>\n<p>May his memory be a blessing.<\/p>\n<p>PS My parents and their \u201cgroup\u201d spent a weekend each year for many years at The Concord. Somewhere in my stuff are the group and couples photos in white folders with The Concord logo on the front sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>Us kids were left home with a sitter.<\/p>\n<p>Janie Hoffman<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Before Elton John &#8220;rescued&#8221; him, Neil Sedaka was working with the guys who would become 10cc (they were his band while recording at their Strawberry Studios), and completed three albums that were not released in the US. Elton chose 12 songs from those three albums, and called it &#8220;Sedaka&#8217;s Back&#8221;, and released it in the US.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks,<\/p>\n<p>Stuart Taubel<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>It was sometime in the early 1960s. I was either 10 or 12 years old when I visited my grandmother in Brighton Beach, Brooklyn. My uncle Irwin arrives to visit his mother (my grandmother) with another person. Warmly, he introduced his friend, saying, \u201cSay hi to Neil Sedaka.\u201d I immediately exclaimed, \u201cCalendar Girl!\u201d Neil\u2019s face lit up with a big smile. Ever since that day, whenever I hear \u201cCalendar Girl,\u201d I can\u2019t help but think of that time at my grandmother\u2019s house when I met Neil Sedaka\u2014a regular guy!<\/p>\n<p>Roy Liemer<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m &#8220;young&#8221; enough (born 1960) that Neil Sedaka first came to my attention with &#8220;Laughter in the Rain&#8221; off his &#8220;Sedaka&#8217;s Back&#8221; album. \u00a0Though, when I first heard the song, I was thinking it was a female singer &#8212; maybe someone like the Carpenters or Anne Murray. \u00a0I&#8217;d probably heard at least &#8220;Calendar Girl&#8221;, and maybe one or two of his other earlier hits (but decidedly not &#8220;Breaking Up is Hard to Do&#8221; yet), on my parents&#8217; AM clock radio before that. \u00a0But, if so, I never registered who the singer was.<\/p>\n<p>When &#8220;Sedaka&#8217;s Back&#8221; came out, though, that initial hit, then &#8220;The Immigrant&#8221;, really grabbed my attention. \u00a0I bought the album, then the songbook, and I learned to play all the songs. \u00a0By that time, I had my own band, and we ended up playing not only those two songs, but also some of the album tracks like &#8220;Little Brother&#8221; and &#8220;Our Last Song Together&#8221;. \u00a0(Maybe also &#8220;Love Will Keep Us Together&#8221; and\/or &#8220;That&#8217;s When the Music Takes Me&#8221;.) \u00a0Even songs we didn&#8217;t play in the band, though, especially &#8220;Solitaire&#8221; (which I remember the Carpenters covering) and &#8220;The Other Side of Me&#8221;, were ones I&#8217;d play quite a bit on my own.<\/p>\n<p>Then came &#8220;The Hungry Years&#8221;, and we added &#8220;Bad Blood&#8221; &#8212; I sang the Elton part and another guy in the band sang Sedaka&#8217;s part &#8212; and &#8220;Breaking Up is Hard to Do&#8221;, on which we mashed up the 70s slow version with the earlier &#8220;before our time&#8221; version at the suggestion of my parents, who&#8217;d heard another local (adult) band do the same. \u00a0Oh yeah, our band wasn&#8217;t exactly cool with the kids, playing Sedaka, Bread, Bee Gees, Elton, and other mellower stuff, so we mostly got booked for adult dances at firehalls, VFW halls, and the like. \u00a0But Sedaka&#8217;s songs of that era were great, and those drove me to getting an earlier greatest hits album, which made me an even bigger fan of his songwriting, even if I didn&#8217;t end up playing any of those songs.<\/p>\n<p>I did see him live once, probably mid-to-late 70s at the New York State Fair in Syracuse. \u00a0I have to say, though, I was somewhat disappointed, because the set was pretty short (45 minutes?), and I&#8217;d wanted more.<\/p>\n<p>By the time his &#8220;Steppin&#8217; Out&#8221; album came out, though I think we at least tried the title song, I was much less enthusiastic about the songs on that album. \u00a0It felt like he was repeating himself musically, and the lyrics largely didn&#8217;t have the bite of the best cuts from the two previous albums. \u00a0I still play through the songbooks of those two albums at least a couple of times a year. \u00a0Some truly great songs that hold up even with just a piano\/vocal interpretation (which is most of what I do these days).<\/p>\n<p>It was sad to hear of his sudden passing. \u00a0I get that he&#8217;s at that age, where we can&#8217;t expect our favorite songwriters and musicians to last much longer &#8212; he was born a year before my father and two before my mother, who passed away suddenly a little over a month at the age of 84. \u00a0But, as you say, the music will live on.<\/p>\n<p>Rick Paul<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>My dad made me listen to his hits in the 1990s, as a teen consuming\u00a0the Beatles and the Doors and Nirvaba and Metallic..<\/p>\n<p>My dad said, \u201cYou need to know this, too.\u201d \u00a0He was right; for the standard of great songs was set.<\/p>\n<p>Do young song writers working in their bedrooms even know of the Brill Buildkng anymore?<\/p>\n<p>Mike Vial<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>In 1980, I was working in a Pharmacy on Madison Ave, NYC.<br \/>\nWe had a lot of celebs with fancy apartments on the upper east side as customers.<br \/>\nMost of them sent their housekeeper to run their errands and they remained anonymous that way.<br \/>\nNeil Sedaka and his wife often came to the store in person. They were very friendly and kind to us and never had any condescending attitudes. I remember him fondly.<\/p>\n<p>Mitchell Horowitz<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Thank you Bob.<\/p>\n<p>This gave me goosebumps and yes I feel as sad as you do!<br \/>\nLike someone I knew well has passed.<\/p>\n<p>I met him when I was a kid in Australia and he was doing the club runs! Mum was a huge fan!<br \/>\nThe Aussies loved him too!<br \/>\nHe was so kind and the songs live were as good as the records!<\/p>\n<p>Years later, a few of my friends were his band when he came out to Oz and they all spoke so highly of him, as a singer, a musician and an extremely kind human!<\/p>\n<p>Those songs will live on forever in our hearts!<br \/>\nWhat a legend and a beautiful soul.<\/p>\n<p>I miss the hungry years and<br \/>\nif it was raining where I am, I don\u2019t think I\u2019d be able to laugh, cause breaking up is hard to do, especially when it\u2019s a ballad<\/p>\n<p>Much love and respect<br \/>\nDannielle De Andrea<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Loved him, still do but I&#8217;m 87. My generation.\u00a0 Thanks for the memory.<\/p>\n<p>Joanne Miller<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for this, and for recognizing Neil&#8217;s humanity in addition to his talent. He&#8217;s been my favorite singer-songwriter for 52+ years now. He even stated publicly that I was his biggest fan in the world, and that I have the largest collection of Sedaka recordings and\u00a0memorabilia in the world. A hugely influential and important part of my life died yesterday. This is what I posted on Facebook:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In Neil Sedaka\u2019s music, I find songs to match every possible mood, save one. Whether expressing the highest highs or the deepest lows; the thrill of a new-found love, the sadness when losing a long-time love; whether in like, in love, or in lust; songs about society\u2019s failings; songs about the sheer joy of being alive. There are songs to commiserate with you when you\u2019re down; songs that embrace you and say &#8216;I\u2019ve been there before you, and I can assure you it does get better.&#8217; Songs that share your most ecstatic, earth-shaking joys. Songs when you need a laugh, songs when your tears won\u2019t stop. There\u2019s a Sedaka song for every mood except one: when needing someone to wrap their arms around you and hold you when nothing else will do \u2014 unfortunately, the mood I\u2019m in now that Neil has died.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My life would be much worse if I had never found his music; with his music in my life, everything is improved. It\u2019s not the time for one-upmanship, for saying &#8216;He loved me more than you.&#8217; Now is the time to say how thankful we each are for having this man and his love in our lives at all. The world will never see his like again \u2014 it is such a better world for him having been a part of it and gracing us with his talent and his love.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I would only slightly quibble with your statement that after leaving Rocket Records, he had no more hits. His 1980 duet with his daughter Dara, &#8220;Should&#8217;ve Never Let You Go,&#8221; reached #19 on the Billboard Hot 100, and #3 on Billboard&#8217;s Adult Contemporary chart. And, as a songwriter, his &#8220;(Is This the Way to) Amarillo&#8221; by Tony Christie (featuring Peter Kay on video, but not on the recording) reached #1 in the UK in 2005, and stayed there for seven weeks, making it the best-selling UK single for 2005. This 2005 version was issue to raise funds for Comic Relief. It was a re-release of Christie&#8217;s 1971 recording, which reached #18 in the UK, but #1 in Germany, Spain, Austria and Belgium.<\/p>\n<p>While Neil was with Rocket Records, I believe he could&#8217;ve had some bigger hits if some other songs had been released instead of the singles that were, especially from his last original album of new material, 1976&#8217;s &#8220;Steppin&#8217; Out.&#8221; They tried to recreate the magic of &#8220;Bad Blood&#8221; (#1 in 1975, with Elton on backing vocals). But, even with Elton again on backing vocals, the title track only reached #36. I thought, released at the right time of year, &#8220;Summer Nights&#8221; was far superior to &#8220;You Gotta Make Your Own Sunshine,&#8221; at least in terms of what I believe would&#8217;ve gotten more radio play. We&#8217;ll never know, of course.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m left completely bereft since his passing.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Best regards,<\/p>\n<p>Betty Latvala-Soininen<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>I hate is when your newsletters are titled simply with a name cos it means that another one has bitten the dust. Your podcast with Sedaka was a peach and I liked him all the more. I wish I\u2019d seen him in concert. So many great songs.<\/p>\n<p>Mike Howard<\/p>\n<p>___________________________________<\/p>\n<p>Loved the Concord story re Sedaka.<\/p>\n<p>It was a bit of a challenge to explain \u201cthe knockers\u201d to my gentile clients!<\/p>\n<p>(I don\u2019t think Grossinger\u2019s had knockers)<\/p>\n<p>Jim Morey<\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No R&amp;R HOF for him as well as Connie Francis, Tommy James, and many deserving other artists. All wrong! Ron Alexenburg ___________________________________ Hi Bob. We all have our pet artist (and pet peeve) who hasn\u2019t made it into the RRHOF and number one on my list is Neil Sedaka. 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